I wonder if the type differences related to peoples preference of how much they want to work at thier relationship.
I suspect I need to go out with either an NT or NF - because thats the easier plane for me to relate too - I don't have to work too hard to be understood, but am better with an IJ type. If someone is very I or very J it would probably drive me nuts. I'm pretty strong P so a J type would balance my lack of planning, and lets face it I types don't interupt too much .... if they are too I they would probably drive me nuts because they are too quiet.
I recently tried online dating, I met an INTJ - who had promise but he came on messenger and basically just asked question, if I asked him anything he would go all quiet - I ended up wanting to give him a shake and ask him to contribute somthing.... LOL - its never easy..