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    Quote Originally Posted by Lethe View Post
    I highly recommend the GTD management system. Before you freak out at the thought of reading an organizational book, I promise you it's very Se-friendly. Use your strengths: the desire for instant results (Se). If the issue mainly lies within your anxiety, then a procrastination article would prove more beneficial. For more information, I can point out some quality ones.
    Doesn't seem like Se is one of her strongest points.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheChosenOne View Post
    Doesn't seem like Se is one of her strongest points.
    I was skimming over the posts, and didn't recognize the "N" next to her name. So I went back to edit that out. Thanks anyway.
    "I cannot expect even my own art to provide all of the answers -- only to hope it keeps asking the right questions." -- Grace Hartigan

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    Looking into the eyes of a [Ni user] is like peeking through a portal into a parallel universe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lethe View Post
    I was skimming over the posts, and didn't recognize the "N" next to her name. So I went back to edit that out. Thanks anyway.
    No problem.

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    Two steps:

    1) Stop caring about having an internally consistent viewpoint.
    2) Start caring about having your outer world consistently scheduled and organized.

    Basically, place external goal completion above internal perspective.
    If you could be anything you want, I bet you'd be disappointed--am I right?

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    Act like Lauren Ashley. She's the most Judging personality on here.
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OneWithSoul View Post
    Act like Lauren Ashley. She's the most Judging personality on here.


    Woot! Yes, I'm probably about 75 J/25 P. However, I can't help with the organization part. I'm pretty unorganized externally.

    I find your fixation with me rather curious though, OneWithSoul. It gives me warm fuzzies that you care so much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post


    Woot! Yes, I'm probably about 75 J/25 P. However, I can't help on the organization part.

    I find your fixation with me rather curious though, OneWithSoul. It gives me warm fuzzies that you care so much.

    You earned some of my respect by not getting pissed off at this. Even if you were being sarcastic..

    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DisneyGeek View Post
    I want to be a unicorn! How do I go about doing that?
    Don't be ridicules. Being J is a state of mind. Think pro-active and then try to be pro-active, and build momentum from there. I'm a hard J so it comes naturally to me, but you can always reward you J-ness when you've checked all things off your list, by indulging your P-ness --

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    I'm sorry to intrude in a subject I haven't read all about.

    In my experience, I have been able to train my "J", or in Big 5, "Conscientiousness" by about 15 points per year.

    Yes, that's how hard it has been.

    I'm now at 50-60 points in the 0-100 scale.

    Listen very carefully. Or, read.

    -Make a point in knowing what you've striving for. Think about how it affects you. Feel the feeling of getting the results. Let it motivate you.
    -See what end result you will accomplish after being more J. Again, imagine the end result for yourself. If the end result will make you stronger, feel strong when you're doing J things. It will motivate you.

    I told the same thing twice there. But it was important enough.

    -Notice the times when the best progress is not to progress at all. The times when you will keep your fun, your freedom. Remember, J (and conscientuousness) can be a positive factor in your life. If it's not getting those things, wait a time from 2 weeks to 6 months. Not every single factor is going to improve when you get more dutiful.

    -Find what's really the most important in your life. If you're young, this is difficult, and your opinion on it will change - and you won't be as exact as you'd be at an older age. Still, if you find what's most important (perhaps 2-5 different things), you'll be able to measure your success in implementing J. But still, have perserverance. J is not for the hasty.

    Ask more if needed. I think I'm genuinely 50% J between the J-P spectrum, ok, a bit more J. I think I handle my J/P things okay.
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    Teach you to be J? Learn to wield your Pness with greater effectiveness!

    Js focus on goals and are satesfied when the end is met, rather than if what you have to do to meet it is fun.... If I go by that definition then I'm a P! But I'm sure of my INFJness. Weren't INFJs called the most 'P' of the J types?
    'Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and its better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.' - Marilyn Monroe

    This is who I am, escapist, paradise-seeker.
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