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    Default MBTI and flirting style

    Do you think, people might flirt differently depending on their type (amoung other reasons)?

    What differences could you tell?

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    what's flirt ?
    [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEBvftJUwDw&t=0s[/URL]

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    i suppose ESFs are going t be more comfortable in social situations as they try to avoid not being in them, so they happen to be alot smoother. but this is more in jsut the delievery, i can compare flirtations from an esfj and an intp and the efj just seemed to be able to flirt effortlessly. the intp always got laughed at by his friends. being flirted with always catches me of guard, reguardless of who it comes from.
    its hard for me to flirt so its very vanilla, nothing special, except when i get a little too direct and come of kind of sleezy.
    it also depends on the person i think, if you are attractd to someone you can either freeze up or feed on the adrenalin and become outspoken. i dont/cant flirt with strangers simply because it involves small talk.

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    my enfp friend giggles like crazy when shes with a guy she likes.
    its disgusting

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    Quote Originally Posted by Edge View Post
    my enfp friend giggles like crazy when shes with a guy she likes.
    its disgusting
    I hate giggling. It makes me want to kill a kitten. That and ditziness. Whoever thought that a ditzy girl was attractive has issues. I'd say my flirting is more toward logical contradictions and playful correcting of the people around me.


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    which type is more prone to go directly to the person he/she likes (based on physical attirance) and starts flirting on an obvious way (physical touch, smiling looking in the eyes), while there's nothing yet between the 2 of them, except getting to know each other in a social situation?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cality View Post
    which type is more prone to go directly to the person he/she likes (based on physical attirance) and starts flirting on an obvious way (physical touch, smiling looking in the eyes), while there's nothing yet between the 2 of them, except getting to know each other in a social situation?
    ESFP is my best guess.


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    I was sure this type of answer would get out but this person I think of, is an NT.... for sure... more critical than him doesn't exist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    ESFP is my best guess.
    Don't rule out ESTPs. We're go getters! I don't believe in pickup lines, that is just way tacky and juvenile. If I have an interest in anyone for any reason I just go up and talk with them. If there was eye contact or something else in addition to my gut instincts/immediate desires even better. There's alot to flirting isn't there? I think the bulk of it is non-verbal. Once you get to talking you should know what direction things are going, at least I do.

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    I am good at flirting, but I really cant say now that I am good at flirting. I mean how would that sound ? Due to this circumstance, several circumstances follow, for example: while flirting I think, wow she is hot I should tell her. But I cant tell her that she is hot, how would that sound ? I would look like an idiot.

    It's a vicious circle, really
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