I was just wondering if there's any quirks, physically, that the INTJ male is interested in. Because I know that I sure am picky about the males I'm interested in. But it's not necessarily the stereotypical "hot guy" that I'm interested in. Actually, likely it's not the stereotypical "hot guy".
The same is true of us. I'm fairly neutral on body, though I have what might be considered very unusual preferences. The chances that any two INTJs have the same preferences is quite low, and we seem to be one of the most variable types from person-to-person. A mix of maturity, life, and circumstances, among other things, will make each of us so distinctly different from the next that there is no standard that you could ever target.
This has varied over my life, but, here are
my preferences:
Weight/Body Shape: Thin through Overweight, with a slight preference for just a bit above average, I find excessive weight and skinny disgusting (this includes all models guys drool over). Must be evenly/well distributed, which varies per person. This has probably been my longest-standing preference.
Clothing: Practical, simple, clean. I also like dresses for some reason, even though they're impractical. I don't like floppy clothing (most things that hang, swing, or blow in the wind, for instance, aside from a dress, but with those I prefer heavier ones that don't move much in the wind or while walking). It needs to fit; I seriously dislike things like sweats or loose shirts (even with overweight girls, a shirt that fits well looks better). I also don't like much skin showing, aside from head/neck/arms/hands. Maybe some of the lower leg if it's hot.
Adornment: Little-to-none. I dislike jewelry (including earrings, necklaces, etc), seriously dislike painted/augmented/long nails (over half an inch, but I still prefer not much beyond the tip of the finger), and severely dislike (teetering on hate) tattoos. Hair adornments are alright, as long as they're not too attention-attracting.
Hair: I don't generally care for shorter than shoulder-length hair. Too long and straight gives me an automatic reaction to the person (butt-length straight = someone I don't want to associate with (Hippie sort? Spaced-out druggie? Something like that)). I tend to dislike dyed hair, particularly weird colors, which are flat repulsive. I also have a general preference for hair color from blonde through red, but have known many darker-haired girls I liked, so this is just a general preference. Oh yes, I prefer wavy (not curly) hair.
That said, when randomly wandering I've notice that under one in a thousand females catch my attention due to attractiveness, and it usually occurs no more than once every three months. They don't look like models, aren't really what guys are probably looking for, generally are pretty boring in appearance, sometimes nerdy (usually not), never over 5'9" or so. When I'm trying to locate them I seldom exceed about one in a few hundred. The funny thing is that they don't fit any checklist, and all these can be overcome by just talking to me.
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