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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackwater View Post
    Are you all sure you prefer introverts? Or are you just lonely and craving for copies of yourselves?
    A copy of myself wouldn't have tits...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer View Post
    A copy of myself wouldn't have tits...
    Your avatar looks like it's going to fall forward and drown.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackwater View Post
    Are you all sure you prefer introverts? Or are you just lonely and craving for copies of yourselves?
    Yes, I'm absolutely sure, and you wouldn't understand.

    You see, we may be lonely, but at least I know better than to want to be in a relationship with someone that would annoy me and/or drive me crazy. Extra stress is not worth it. I have enough family that is extroverted already, I certainly wouldn't want to add yet another to the clan (unless they accept the way I am and can deal with that).
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    Your avatar looks like it's going to fall forward and drown.
    I just wanted to see how people would respond!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer View Post
    I just wanted to see how people would respond!
    And I fell for it. Stupid extrovert! Now I'm going to call someone and talk about it for the next 2 hours.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    And I fell for it. Stupid extrovert! Now I'm going to call someone and talk about it for the next 2 hours.
    I'm secretly in love with pixelated characters.

    Damn, it's no longer secret!!! :steam:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Usehername View Post
    <picture>

    . . .

    I'm definitely not well-endowed. I'm the one in the green. Who, um, it looks like forgot to brush her hair that day.
    I've known and been sure of the INTJ-ness of only one female--a philosophy professor. Granted, it's hard to tell for sure just from seeing the back, but you and her both appear to have very similar hair-styles . . . just an interesting coincidence that probably means nothing to anyone but myself.

    The consensus seems to be suggesting that a "slightly more formal than needed" style would work best. I've never understood the draw of formal-wear myself, but, in theory, I suppose it could work. Moreso "sophisticated" than "formal." I still suggest, as a foundation, you try to find a fashion as natural as possible. Based on the one picture you've posted, I will echo ptgatsby's sentiment that there are lots of options that would look good on you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cafe View Post
    Sounds like my daughter.

    IMO, the most important thing is that your clothes fit. That means trying them on, which even I detest.

    Maybe go with mostly understated/neutral/serious, but with a little bit of quirkiness that shows something about what you like or how you think.

    That's probably not much help. FWIW, autumns can wear black if it's a warmish shade, you just have to hold the garment in question near your face and check in the mirror to see what it does.
    hmmm. i did not know this.

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    thanks for all the replies, guys. i'm taking it all in!


    as a sidenote, if you click on the pic, it blows up.
    And the guy I'm talking to (and apparently needing to explain to him that something is "very wide"?) is an INTJ too. The group of us got tested together; it was soo weird. We were thinking, "oohhh, so this is why we can talk about everything and follow each other but people think we're weird!" I friend-heart him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer View Post
    Because Extraverts (and especially Extraverted women) talk too much.

    I'd suspect that an Introverted woman is also more careful with money, especially IxxJ.
    Um . . . yeah . . . about that . . . not necessarily. Some of us have a hard time seeing electronic money as finite and concrete and trouble remembering exactly how much is in the account and how much we are supposed to leave in for electronic payments and what day is this anyway??
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