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    Default How does an intj deal with and esfp?

    I know this girl who is the most anoyying, freeloading, person I know of, she constantly seeks attention at any cost, even by harming herself. She is not funny at all and thinks she is, and constantly bugs me, I've tried ignoring her completely but she won't leave me alone. How do i get rid of this esfp?
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    Go somewhere else.

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    Hmm, I kind of didn't make this to detailed did I? The girl is in every single one of my classes, I would have thought of going somewhere else, if it was possible.

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    It's grammar.

    Why are you in the same school? Shouldn't you be angling for MIT about now? Not a hell of a lot of ESFPs there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thegregxp View Post
    Hmm, I kind of didn't make this to detailed did I? The girl is in every single one of my classes, I would have thought of going somewhere else, if it was possible.
    Hmm, I kind of didn't make this too detailed, did I? The girl is in every single one of my classes; I would have thought of going somewhere else, if it were possibe.



    That said... it sounds to me as if this ESFP is mentally ill. Self-harm for attention? Certain bits of your description cry Borderline Personality Disorder to me, however I'm only going by a vague description of the person/situation, etc.

    Aren't you INTJs supposed to be [painfully] direct with your thoughts?
    Tell her you have no reason to associate with her, and you'd appreciate it if she would respect that, and leave you alone.
    03/23 06:06:58 EcK: lex
    03/23 06:06:59 EcK: lex
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    03/23 06:29:07 Lexicon: I was sleeping!



    04/25 04:20:35 Patches: Don't listen to lex. She wants to birth a litter of kittens. She doesnt get to decide whats creepy

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    You're going to need to be blunt and direct. One of my roommates is ESFP and that's the best way to communicate with him. She may not even realize you're ignoring her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thegregxp View Post
    How do i get rid of this esfp?
    Ask and you shall receive.

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    just ignore her?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexicon View Post
    Hmm, I kind of didn't make this too detailed, did I? The girl is in every single one of my classes; I would have thought of going somewhere else, if it were possibe.



    That said... it sounds to me as if this ESFP is mentally ill. Self-harm for attention? Certain bits of your description cry Borderline Personality Disorder to me, however I'm only going by a vague description of the person/situation, etc.

    Aren't you INTJs supposed to be [painfully] direct with your thoughts?
    Tell her you have no reason to associate with her, and you'd appreciate it if she would respect that, and leave you alone.
    Does correcting someone's grammar raise your self esteem?

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    Quote Originally Posted by scantilyclad View Post
    just ignore her?
    He said he tried that and it didn't work.

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