I am curious if anyone else has ever found themselves oddly drawn (in a moth to a flame type way) to their complete MBTI opposite?
I was semi involved with an ESTJ earlier on in the year, and for two people so different I found the attraction quite strong. (not that it went anywhere, the more I like you the more chance I will dump you before you can hurt me)
He constantly went on about how much he loved my idealistic view of things, and how much he liked my caring side, and how he liked my warrior side that fights for too many causes lol.
The other side of it, I also like his organisation, his alpha male-ism (which I detest so badly in others), his success, his control, I admired it all, and through these differences we were drawn to each other.
So why do opposites attract in MBTI?