I have one observation from real life I would like to share and in a way it is confession.
Introverts say that they lose energy in social situations, at leat in some of them.
As far as I know idea that extroverts are social and introverts less so is not true. The real picture is that extroverts are energised by people and introverts are not or they lose energy in the process.
(this is simplistic view)
I, as a person always score introversion 80%-100%.
The thing is that I have very well developed inner world that never shuts down even in most social situations. In a way it so intense that it can't be shut down.
What leads into somewhat bizzare situation.
I am producing more energy then I can lose.
When I analyse my life this can even be observed. Most of my life I am alone since that is my natural state but I don't have social phobias.
Few times in my life I have been to real partys and all of them had something in common.
I was always the one that was leaving last and after it I was the same as at beginning. My battery was full, since I was unaffected by entire thing on this level.
The reason why I seek any contact with others has nothing to do with E/I but with NTJ part. I know I need them to achive my goals or to get an information but that is mostly it. All parts of my NTJ part are strong as my introversion. I was thinking about how this is even possible but when I take a look at who I am there is no point in not accepting test results.
My theory is that this is mostly because of my extremly weak Fe. When I am around people I don't create emotional bonds. So I think that emotional bounds could be what is draining introverts. Plus I have never stoping source inside me.
Because of this I can come as very impersonal person from which you can't hide. Over the years I have managed to muster enough skill to soften this trait. This can probably explain why I don't have romantic feeling.
Also there were cases when I have managed to drain strong Es with my approach. Since they can't take that much interaction and I can since I am not losing energy. Many peope find this trait quite odd because it makes me hard to place in social stereotypes.
Do I have a winning lottery ticket without even knowing it?