So, I've got it narrowed down to 2 types, ESFJ or ESTJ. She is definitely extroverted, very gregarious, and a ridiculous drunk. Definitely S, because she can tell the exact hour I shaved by looking at and feeling my face, criticizes things like the length of the hair on the back of my neck and whether my car is clean or not. Definitely J because I've never really met a more ordered, organized, scheduled person, and spontaneity is something I don't she is capable of.
It's just the T or the F I'm not really sure about. On one hand, she cannot take criticism at all, if we have an argument or something about a certain point of view [I usually just defer because I don't care that much, but sometimes I have to take up the opposite side!] and it becomes resolved or is a stalemate, she completely shuts herself down and won't talk to me for the next couple ours. She just can't let things go if she can't make me see her point of view, which leads me to think F.
But then again, she does exhibit "overseer" characteristics and is very concerned with things going the "right way" and with efficiency. For someone so easily hurt, she actually defers to me [an INTP!] in situations of intimacy or in displays of affection, which I can't imagine an F doing, unless I misunderstand it. So these kind of things lead me to believe T.
Anyways I'm not great at typing yet, still learning the system. So any help could be appreciated.