Okay so I did something nice for an F today. IT didn't occur to me that it was especially nice until I'd done it, they commented and I re analysed the act.
To me it was a simple confidence booster. Something that said "I'm here to help, now go get them!!". If someone had done similar for me then it would have little effect, as far as I'd predict. It almost felt like I'd patted them on the head and yet they were happy with that.
So after this act I study myself to check and see if I'm using ulterior motives or similar (this is exaggerated, I'm much more MPD than this ) and found no evidence for thinking I was being manipulative. I'd just done this on a whim, cause it was a nice thing to do and yet it meaned so much to the F in question.
I was wondering if this was a common worry for Ts. Do you check/ double take to see why you'd done it and why such a simple gesture had such vast effect? Is there a similar play in reverse? (as in is there something's that Fs do which Ts find great and leaves the F sitting there scratching their bonce to try and figure out what the big deal is)
Note to F in question, this is thought not emotion. Don't go getting paranoid. What was true is true and the rest is mere suspicion. If this was a drawing it would state clearly "DO NOT SCALE".