Types gone bad - Page 2

niffer · 07-31-2007, 07:44 AM

And when you get INFJ vs. ENFJ....holy shit. And they use weapons too. Especially soft drinks.

Brendan · 07-31-2007, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by niffer

And when you get INFJ vs. ENFJ....holy shit. And they use weapons too. Especially soft drinks.

WHO TOLD YOU OUR SECRETS.

Shimpei · 07-31-2007, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer

Underdeveloped SJs are either dogmatic about religious beliefs or trust what the media tells them.

Yes, and SFJs become clingy.

Mycroft · 07-31-2007, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by heart

That would require watching The Sopranos. Ugh.

Don't be the kind of person who offhandedly dismisses a pop-culture phenomenon equally beloved by fans and critics without offering so much as an explanation as to what you have against it. It's unbecoming.

Xander · 07-31-2007, 01:17 PM

Fs as a whole when gone bad, in the temper sense, tend to undermine people and become vicious not in attacking people's strengths but their weaknesses. I think the pattern goes that a T tries to undermine your strengths and an F will aim more for your weak spots (due to being able to see them easier and in more clarity) and will bring down the whole house of cards.

Ns try desperately to piece together patterns which support their fritzing N, which often makes links which no one in their right mind would (most call these "assumptions" but that's over simplifying a little) make.

I've found NFs to show strong ST qualities when underdeveloped or enraged. They are here and now and see no consequences. They become more and more blind to what effect they have on others (a quality most often associated with STs) and have, to me at least, appeared to be completely without vision and diplomacy.

Of course the other facet is the "I'm going to do this and you can go f yourself if you don't agree" but that's more NFJ, I think.

Natrushka · 07-31-2007, 01:49 PM

Based on living with one for 7 years I'd say ISTJs wont see reason when they're enraged. They think you're attacking them when you argue a point. They can also go on and on and on, thinking if they can just explain it to you someother way you'll understand them and agree with them... Oh, and if you want to see an ISTJ get upset you tell them "You're doing it wrong"

I (INTJ) keep things inside until it all comes out. Sometimes I know I'm close to overreacting and it's like I'm watching myself go through with it; I think "oh no, this is going to be ugly, whatever you do, don't say x or y or z". or "I wonder what he'd do if I took this glass and threw it at him". I tend to stay very quiet and very rigid because I know if I don't, I might do something Really Bad. I used to scream and stomp and throw things, now I just make myself leave. "Get out and get away and calm down".

Mycroft · 07-31-2007, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Natrushka

Based on living with one for 7 years I'd say ISTJs wont see reason when they're enraged. They think you're attacking them when you argue a point. They can also go on and on and on, thinking if they can just explain it to you someother way you'll understand them and agree with them... Oh, and if you want to see an ISTJ get upset you tell them "You're doing it wrong"

I (INTJ) keep things inside until it all comes out. Sometimes I know I'm close to overreacting and it's like I'm watching myself go through with it; I think "oh no, this is going to be ugly, whatever you do, don't say x or y or z". or "I wonder what he'd do if I took this glass and threw it at him". I tend to stay very quiet and very rigid because I know if I don't, I might do something Really Bad. I used to scream and stomp and throw things, now I just make myself leave. "Get out and get away and calm down".

...so much for my theory that you, as an INTJ married to an ISTJ, must have the patience of a saint.

Natrushka · 07-31-2007, 05:06 PM

No, ironically, he's much more patient that I am. I, however, make allowances for him I make for nobody else. No one.

The 'used to scream and stomp and throw things" was when I was a teenager, btw, reacting to my parents. And while I think about the throwing of things and the nasty biting comments, I don't say them.

runvardh · 07-31-2007, 06:57 PM

Please don't let me get angry; the mean guy with the toys comes out and does terrible things.

Lookin4theBestNU · 07-31-2007, 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by runvardh

Please don't let me get angry; the mean guy with the toys comes out and does terrible things

Hmmm what kinds of toys & what kinds of "terrible things"

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07-31-2007, 01:17 PM	#15 (permalink)
Xander Just Vacant Join Date: Apr 2007 Type: ENTP Location: Coventry, England Posts: 3,749	Fs as a whole when gone bad, in the temper sense, tend to undermine people and become vicious not in attacking people's strengths but their weaknesses. I think the pattern goes that a T tries to undermine your strengths and an F will aim more for your weak spots (due to being able to see them easier and in more clarity) and will bring down the whole house of cards. Ns try desperately to piece together patterns which support their fritzing N, which often makes links which no one in their right mind would (most call these "assumptions" but that's over simplifying a little) make. I've found NFs to show strong ST qualities when underdeveloped or enraged. They are here and now and see no consequences. They become more and more blind to what effect they have on others (a quality most often associated with STs) and have, to me at least, appeared to be completely without vision and diplomacy. Of course the other facet is the "I'm going to do this and you can go f yourself if you don't agree" but that's more NFJ, I think. __________________ You really want to know? Yes, I'll tell you. I'll tell you why I'm lying here but God forgive me... And God help us all. Because you don't know what you ask of me

07-31-2007, 01:49 PM	#16 (permalink)
Natrushka Pareo cattus Join Date: Jun 2007 Type: INTJ Posts: 1,208	Based on living with one for 7 years I'd say ISTJs wont see reason when they're enraged. They think you're attacking them when you argue a point. They can also go on and on and on, thinking if they can just explain it to you someother way you'll understand them and agree with them... Oh, and if you want to see an ISTJ get upset you tell them "You're doing it wrong" I (INTJ) keep things inside until it all comes out. Sometimes I know I'm close to overreacting and it's like I'm watching myself go through with it; I think "oh no, this is going to be ugly, whatever you do, don't say x or y or z". or "I wonder what he'd do if I took this glass and threw it at him". I tend to stay very quiet and very rigid because I know if I don't, I might do something Really Bad. I used to scream and stomp and throw things, now I just make myself leave. "Get out and get away and calm down". __________________ This signature left intentionally blank. Really.

07-31-2007, 05:06 PM	#18 (permalink)
Natrushka Pareo cattus Join Date: Jun 2007 Type: INTJ Posts: 1,208	No, ironically, he's much more patient that I am. I, however, make allowances for him I make for nobody else. No one. The 'used to scream and stomp and throw things" was when I was a teenager, btw, reacting to my parents. And while I think about the throwing of things and the nasty biting comments, I don't say them. __________________ This signature left intentionally blank. Really.

07-31-2007, 06:57 PM	#19 (permalink)
runvardh にゃん Join Date: Jun 2007 Type: INFP Location: In the bed and under it... Posts: 8,733	Please don't let me get angry; the mean guy with the toys comes out and does terrible things. __________________ Dreams are best served manifest and tangible. INFP, 4w5 sx/sp, IEI I accept no responsibility, what so ever, for the fact that I exist; I do, however, accept full responsibility for what I do while I exist.

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