How do Fe-doms decide when to hate or dislike someone?

Mort Belfry · 10-05-2008, 12:32 AM

This is something I've been wondering about lately. Do XXFJs aim to get along with as many people as possible? Or do they often write people off and for what reason?

(Sorry for the short OP, I really have nothing more to add.)

PinkPiranha · 10-05-2008, 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Mort Belfry

This is something I've been wondering about lately. Do XXFJs aim to get along with as many people as possible?

Disharmony is hard to deal with, but I don't *aim* to get along with everyone. I just like people. I want to understand them. That's my prime mover. As a mechanic, I was in a pretty odd place. Even though I got into plenty of scraps, I was told by one of the redneck boys that I was very well liked and that they saw me as their sister. (Well. Except for the ENTP I was involved with...) My love for people got pushed and burned and tested constantly. Most times it ended with understanding. Sometimes rude hand gestures, cursing, and yelling.

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Or do they often write people off and for what reason?

There was one boy in my garage. He was too much. Very young, tough, cocky, narrow. I could see a lot of good in him, but he pushed me SO HARD. He was difficult. I got into more than my fair share of cuss-outs with him. But ultimately, we reached an equilibrium. I'd cursed him out so bad the day before that his eyebrows caught on fire. When I came in the next day, I grabbed him from behind and squeezed him and said, "You make me crazy, S. Don't make me kill you." He turned his head, smiled, nodded, said quietly, "Okay..." We got along fine after that.

I will strive to find what makes each person tick. It's an automatic impulse. Yes, there are people that I absolutely wash my hands of and will not give the time of day to. If you insist on being a jackass, I give up.

animenagai · 10-05-2008, 02:16 AM

i think Fe's genuinely try to get along with people. i think as long as you don't piss them off actively, they'll see you as a friend. most of them time it's not because they want to be seen as popular or anything, just that they dislike conflict. to piss off a mature Fe user i think you either

A. got into a misunderstanding or

B. just crossed the line.

entropie · 10-05-2008, 02:24 AM

You think ? I dont.

Pissing of Fe users is the best thing there is

animenagai · 10-05-2008, 02:28 AM

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You think ? I dont.

Pissing of Fe users is the best thing there is

WHAT? YOU ANGER ME! RAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRR!

ok, technically, i'm not a Fe user, not as a major process anyways, but we all know that's not true.

Brendan · 10-05-2008, 02:30 AM

Well, when I try to think of the people I hate, I come up empty handed. Which I have to say pleasantly surprises me. There's no one who I just wish didn't exist. Though, if you want to get on my bad side, certain things like lying, bullying and generally doing stupid things for no apparent reason are very quick ways of doing so.

entropie · 10-05-2008, 02:32 AM

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bullying and generally doing stupid things for no apparent reason are very quick ways of doing so.

Now we are talking

PinkPiranha · 10-05-2008, 02:33 AM

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Originally Posted by entropie

You think ? I dont.

Pissing of Fe users is the best thing there is

*destroys you with my mind*

entropie · 10-05-2008, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by PinkPiranha

*destroys you with my mind*

Sounds like the red panties today

heart · 10-05-2008, 02:35 AM

Red panties will make root chakra go on overload! Watchout!

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entropie Liasion man in Amsterdam Join Date: Apr 2008 Type: entq Location: Bochum, Germany Posts: 5,205	You think ? I dont. Pissing of Fe users is the best thing there is __________________ pocket estj Enneagram: 3w4 "Now is the dramatic moment of fate, Watson, when you hear a step upon the stair which is walking into your life, and you know not whether for good or ill." ~Sir Arthur Conan Doyle [Mind.in.a.Box] -------

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Brendan Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Type: ENFJ Posts: 744	Well, when I try to think of the people I hate, I come up empty handed. Which I have to say pleasantly surprises me. There's no one who I just wish didn't exist. Though, if you want to get on my bad side, certain things like lying, bullying and generally doing stupid things for no apparent reason are very quick ways of doing so. __________________ ENFJ\|2w3\|RLUAI Chef: Have you ever heard of the Emancipation Proclamation? General: I don't listen to hip-hop.

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heart heart on fire Join Date: May 2007 Type: INFP Posts: 7,344	Red panties will make root chakra go on overload! Watchout! __________________ 5w4 sx/sp People understand me so poorly that they don't even understand my complaint about them not understanding me. Soren Kierkegaard

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10-05-2008, 02:16 AM	#3 (permalink)
animenagai Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Type: ENFP Posts: 573	i think Fe's genuinely try to get along with people. i think as long as you don't piss them off actively, they'll see you as a friend. most of them time it's not because they want to be seen as popular or anything, just that they dislike conflict. to piss off a mature Fe user i think you either A. got into a misunderstanding or B. just crossed the line.

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