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INTJ+ISFP?

Scapegoated 4 fun

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MBTI Type
INTJ
Enneagram
5
Have you seen this dynamic present itself in a real life couple? What was it like? how did they interact? What do you think drew them together? Do you think it could/would work well? Why/why not?
 

jcloudz

Yup
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Nov 5, 2009
Messages
1,525
MBTI Type
Istj
Long periods of silence with the isfp occasionally laughter than silence?
 

highlander

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Dec 23, 2009
Messages
26,578
MBTI Type
INTJ
Enneagram
6w5
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
Have you seen this dynamic present itself in a real life couple? What was it like? how did they interact? What do you think drew them together? Do you think it could/would work well? Why/why not?

My first girlfriend was an ISFP. We were together for three years. My comments are buried somewhere in this thread.

INTJ and ISFP Relationships

Bottom line on average, I think INFP is probably a lot more compatible with INTJ than ISFP.
 

chubber

failed poetry slam career
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Oct 18, 2013
Messages
4,413
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
In Socionics they would be activity partners, they work for short whiles. It's always going to be trying, from one end. Good luck.
 

Trash Panda

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Jun 7, 2016
Messages
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I dated an infj and that didn't work. Seems like intj would be even less compatible than that tbh unless you have a ton of common interests and similar backgrounds *maybe*

Too much effort involved. Relationships should be more on the easy/comfortable side w/o effort

I would probably be cool w an istj
 
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