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    please let prayer be true Kho's Avatar
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    Default Any INFP's here magnetically attracted to ISTJ's? LOL

    It's like a moth to a flame kind of thing. idk.
    I find myself liking how inscrutable and confident/insecure they can seem. Even if they really aren't.
    And I like how they seem to either really love you or really hate you.
    I don't think they're good for me though.

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    Same, basically. I was attracted by ISTJs back in the day just as much as I was attracted to ISTPs, both for that some kind of confidence.

    Ultimately I settled down with an INTJ though, and he's very balanced. He's sweet, respects me, and it's adorable when he nerds out about something.
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    Yeah, I feel like SJ's are like the 'ultimate mystery' to an NF.
    I do feel like NT's understand us far better, though. There's more of a deeper-level connection.

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    Pretty sure my parents are INFP and ISTJ. So, it's a pairing that can work.
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    Cool..what's it like for you as an INTP to witness their marriage?
    I can imagine an ISTJ would be in the more grounded/ breadwinner role and the INFP would be more nurturing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kho View Post
    Cool..what's it like for you as an INTP to witness their marriage?
    I can imagine an ISTJ would be in the more grounded/ breadwinner role and the INFP would be more nurturing.
    Things were kind of more complicated than that for a variety of reasons, actually.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vulcan View Post
    Things were kind of more complicated than that for a variety of reasons, actually.
    How long have they been together?
    I mean, these are your folks we're talking about, so I don't want you to feel uncomfortable about it or anything.
    If you don't feel like discussing their relationship dynamic. That's ok. But if you are, I'm curious to know more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kho View Post
    How long have they been together?
    I mean, these are your folks we're talking about, so I don't want you to feel uncomfortable about it or anything.
    If you don't feel like discussing their relationship dynamic. That's ok. But if you are, I'm curious to know more.
    They're still together, but there's been some stuff that happened that's kind of difficult to talk about. None of it is really type-related, though.

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    I'm sorry to hear about it. I hope your relationship with your parents is okay and I hope everything works out for the better.

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    I find female IXTJs attractive in general.
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