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    What do you think about relationships between INTJs and INTJs? The focus of this is really on romantic relationships but it also makes sense to discuss your experience in situations where these two types interact in a significant way – such as friendship, at work, etc.

    When it’s working – What are the joys and positive aspects of these relationships?
    - How compatible do you think these two types are in general?
    - Why are they attracted to each other?
    - How to they compliment each other?
    - How well do they understand each other and why?
    - What are they like together raising children?

    When it’s not working – What are the challenges when two people of this type are in a relationship?
    - What are some of the communication challenges they can have?
    - What are the biggest frustrations between these two types?
    - How can they take each other for granted?
    - What happens with things “go wrong” between these two types?

    Advice for couples – What recommendations do you have?
    - What things should each type do to facilitate better communication?
    - What advice do you have for each of the two types?
    - What advice do you have for the INTJs?

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    I have never observed this but I have to imagine it would be one of the most efficient and powerful things ever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gromit View Post
    I have never observed this but I have to imagine it would be one of the most efficient and powerful things ever.

    But possibly sad if they ever had kids
    Why? We would raise them to be efficient and powerful as well.

    Actually, INTJ/INTP has some of this quality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    Why? We would raise them to be efficient and powerful as well.

    Actually, INTJ/INTP has some of this quality.
    Oh maybe if they had sensitive feeler kids I guess... it would depend on the two people who are the parents obviously.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    Why? We would raise them to be efficient and powerful as well.

    Actually, INTJ/INTP has some of this quality.
    I was thinking it could be sad if the two were emotionally repressed and lacked expression of affection for their children. Which could apply to INTJ-INTJ or INTJ-INTP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gromit View Post
    Oh maybe if they had sensitive feeler kids I guess... it would depend on the two people who are the parents obviously.
    Quote Originally Posted by greenfairy View Post
    I was thinking it could be sad if the two were emotionally repressed and lacked expression of affection for their children. Which could apply to INTJ-INTJ or INTJ-INTP.
    Do you think these types, especially in these pairings, would therefore make bad parents?
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    Have any of the INTJs here actually been in a relationship with another INTJ? I'm really sort of curious. Most of the comments so far are about the concept of it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    Do you think these types, especially in these pairings, would therefore make bad parents?
    Nope. Or not necessarily.
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    Quote Originally Posted by highlander View Post
    Have any of the INTJs here actually been in a relationship with another INTJ? I'm really sort of curious. Most of the comments so far are about the concept of it
    My answer is this:

    "I too once passed the Dimrill Gate,” said Aragorn quietly; “but though I also came out again, the memory is very evil. I do not wish to enter Moria a second time.”


    Strictly speaking, that's not completely true: I'd just have to make absolutely clear about some things I hadn't known to look for back then (first relationship).
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    Quote Originally Posted by grey_beard View Post
    My answer is this:

    "I too once passed the Dimrill Gate,” said Aragorn quietly; “but though I also came out again, the memory is very evil. I do not wish to enter Moria a second time.”


    Strictly speaking, that's not completely true: I'd just have to make absolutely clear about some things I hadn't known to look for back then (first relationship).
    That would be something very interesting to hear about. I understand how you might not want to talk about it though.

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