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    Default ESFJ and ISTP Relationships

    What do you think about relationships between ESFJs and ISTPs? The focus of this is really on romantic relationships but it also makes sense to discuss your experience in situations where these two types interact in a significant way – such as friendship, at work, etc.

    When it’s working – What are the joys and positive aspects of these relationships?
    - How compatible do you think these two types are in general?
    - Why are they attracted to each other?
    - How to they compliment each other?
    - How well do they understand each other and why?
    - What are they like together raising children?

    When it’s not working – What are the challenges when two people of this type are in a relationship?
    - What are some of the communication challenges they can have?
    - What are the biggest frustrations between these two types?
    - How can they take each other for granted?
    - What happens with things “go wrong” between these two types?

    Advice for couples – What recommendations do you have?
    - What things should each type do to facilitate better communication?
    - What advice do you have for each of the two types?
    - If you are an ESFJ, what advice do you have for the ISTPs?
    - If you are an ISTP, what advice do you have for the ESFJs?

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    I literally don't think I know a single ISTP. We must just in in different circles?
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    That's too bad. This is supposed to be a really good match. Much like ISTJ and ESFP, for me. But I've never knowingly met an ISTJ either, haha. Probably hae met some statistically but not known them well enough to type them.

    The different circles thing is often a hindrance.

    So I'm thinking. We need a method by which to meet people who are outside of our circles.

    Large groups that attract all kinds of people is one way to do it.
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