24 A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own toil. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, 25 for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment?
I thought *everyone* still holds hands once they are married!
On topic, I don't think the language of 'giving up' something 'for the sake of the relationship' is a helpful wording of the issue.
I think of it more about finding inner parts of me which can relate to the other person. I can choose to go with the flow of the INFP or I can choose to get all innerly offended by their casual style.
But I do have boundaries, and I have not found every INFP easy to get along with, and certainly I have been hurt badly by one INFP 'best friend', it was many years ago now but I still wince to remember the details.