ISFJ and ISFJ Relationships

[highlander]

What do you think about relationships between ISFJs and ISFJs? The focus of this is really on romantic relationships but it also makes sense to discuss your experience in situations where these two types interact in a significant way – such as friendship, at work, etc.

When it’s working – What are the joys and positive aspects of these relationships?
- How compatible do you think these two types are in general?
- Why are they attracted to each other?
- How to they compliment each other?
- How well do they understand each other and why?
- What are they like together raising children?

When it’s not working – What are the challenges when two people of this type are in a relationship?
- What are some of the communication challenges they can have?
- What are the biggest frustrations between these two types?
- How can they take each other for granted?
- What happens with things “go wrong” between these two types?

Advice for couples – What recommendations do you have?
- What things should each type do to facilitate better communication?
- What advice do you have for each of the two types?
- If you are an ISFJ, what advice do you have for the ISFJs?

 

[Yama]

This sounds like a nightmare.

 

[strychnine]

This sounds like a nightmare.

LOL TBH I don't think anyone would want to date their own type.

But as an ESFP I'd take an ISFJ any day.

 

[Forever]

LOL TBH I don't think anyone would want to date their own type.

But as an ESFP I'd take an ISFJ any day.

I wouldn't mind dating an INFJ woman.

 

[Unionruler]

I want to date a fellow ISFJ

 

[Masokissed]

Sounds incredibly boring.

 

[strychnine]

I wouldn't mind dating an INFJ woman.

I want to date a fellow ISFJ

Oh, sorry! I didn't mean to offend, if I did. That's really sweet though. I wouldn't want to date another ESFP; just too much energy for me. I provide the energy, I need someone more...even. Haha.

 

[Yama]

Oh, sorry! I didn't mean to offend, if I did. That's really sweet though. I wouldn't want to date another ESFP; just too much energy for me. I provide the energy, I need someone more...even. Haha.

I get you. I wouldn't want to be with someone too similar to me. I have to be the feeler of the relationship.