I think of it as more lusty, primal, instinctual, physical, what have you, in contrast with the other ENFP's in here who seem to consider it more spiritual, holy and mental merging.
I don't see it as just selfish gratification, though. It's about satisfying lust, yes, but also being physically attuned to each other, losing inhibition and letting basic instinct rule you. Just completely submitting to your own and your partner's lust and being totally present in the moment. It's about conne'mction for me too, just not emotional, but on a more basic level, which doesn't necessarily require sex with a long time partner. (Even though having sex with someone you know well makes it way easier to be comfortable and attuned to their desire.) I also realize that this could be the kind of idealized sex Sx 7's are prone too, just my 7w8 version, lol.
Words escape me when trying to pinpoint it exactly, but hopefully you understand what I'm getting at.
Thanks. This more or less aligns with what I was thinking.
Yeah, I didn't mean it literally. I was just trying to portray "typical ENFP sex" as more of an emotional, love making kind of thing.
After going through all of this I guess all I would be interested in knowing is do you ever experience the spiritual bonding side of sex...?
Through every forest, above the trees
Within my stomach, scraped off my knees
I drink the honey inside your hive
You are the reason I stay alive
A shockingly high number of prostitutes start out when they're around 13-14. Are poached from foster care, group homes, abusive situations by pimps who basically brainwash them and groom in order to exploit them for money.
Sure, there are women who just want the money and go into that industry with a clear head, but it's not that simple a lot of the time.
I still think that in that case they would be more worthy of compassion/a helping hand rather than people going around calling them amoral sluts.
Oh whoops I really should say I've never done the Chinese basket.
I was gunna say...
The Justice Fighter
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"I trust what you are doing though…I just see it a little differently.
I don’t see it as you stepping away from the fire. I see it as the fire directing your course.
No matter how airy or earthy or watery you become... to many of us you will always be...a super nova."
"Behind these gates of seeming warmth sits, loosely chained, a fierce attack dog. Perhaps not crazy, but dangerous"