Ever since my personal lobe secretary said "you couldn't pay me enough to do this job!" and quit... all of my posts seem to be missing 'a central point.'
I'm sorry to do this to you but I'm hoping you will humor me here... now why not so dom? Why not so/sx? e7 so/sx doesn't automatically turn you into Chanaynay the King of Extroversion (although that does look like a lot of fun and I've told him he must carry me around in his pocket or pack me in an extra suitcase and periodically feed me fabulous cocktails with fruit and those little umbrellas...)I had "someone" just once. And the rest of those relationships happened because I wanted the feelings of intensity that happened with the first one. I wasn't attached to the person(s) but to recreating what I felt with that first one. It was long ago and I stopped doing it. I dunno...sx and sp feel very tangled up to me. And it is hard sift out what is sx and just 7 in general. I think that sx shows up at its worst when I am distressed or worse, depressed. It tends to come roaring out then and I have a tendency to lose control, take crazy risks, blah, blah, blah when I am unhappy. Pure f*** it mode. I stop caring and start seeking.
Maybe that's the struggle I feel inside...being an ENFP sp-dom? (angling for that oh-so-wonderful special snowflake status).
I need to read the sp e7 description you attached...but in this moment I can't rule out that what you are attributing to sp...isn't e7s so in disguise.