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    Post Are sp doms the least likely to cheat?

    And that being said, are sx doms the most likely to cheat?

    With so doms falling somewhere in the middle?
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    Ha, isn't the stereotypical player some sort of So-Dom?

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    IDK. Maybe. On the other hand, I feel like sp doms would also be the most likely to keep more than one viable option in hand as long as they could and string people along that way. Or cheat to preserve the emotional upper hand/sense of control.

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    I think I am probably an SP and I always know I will get caught. If I don't get caught, I will be unable to resist confessing. Maybe I'm something else.

    That would be a reason not to cheat. But I also could not bear the hurt and disapproval of my partner. Just the thought of him looking at me with those feelings in his face . . . I think I'd rather be dead.

    The relationship would have to be completely broken down for me to cheat and I like to think I'd leave first. I hope I would. But I really hope it never comes to that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    Ha, isn't the stereotypical player some sort of So-Dom?
    Ha ha, Yea I am just guessing with the so's lol I don't get how they tick just yet.

    Quote Originally Posted by senza tema View Post
    IDK. Maybe. On the other hand, I feel like sp doms would also be the most likely to keep more than one viable option in hand as long as they could and string people along that way. Or cheat to preserve the emotional upper hand/sense of control.
    Ohh good one!

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    I think I am probably an SP and I always know I will get caught. If I don't get caught, I will be unable to resist confessing. Maybe I'm something else.

    That would be a reason not to cheat. But I also could not bear the hurt and disapproval of my partner. Just the thought of him looking at me with those feelings in his face . . . I think I'd rather be dead.

    The relationship would have to be completely broken down for me to cheat and I like to think I'd leave first. I hope I would. But I really hope it never comes to that.
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    Sx-doms are more likely to check out the temptation, and be curious about what it is, how it would work etc. Doesn't mean they'd go there though - that depends on their own values and motivations.

    I second @senza tema in the power play being tempting for sp-doms, as they tend to lean towards minimising risks in every way.


    In essence, every variant is equally prone to cheating for their own reasons, I'd wager.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Sx-doms are more likely to check out the temptation, and be curious about what it is, how it would work etc. Doesn't mean they'd go there though - that depends on their own values and motivations.
    yup

    I second @senza tema in the power play being tempting for sp-doms, as they tend to lean towards minimising risks in every way.
    my Sp/Sx best friend is really fucking good at this. I could not see myself dating an Sp dom because they would totally have the upper hand on me emotionally.

    In essence, every variant is equally prone to cheating for their own reasons, I'd wager.
    I wouldn't say "every variant is equally prone to cheating" as much as "different variants have different temptations to cheat, which are difficult to compare"
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    actually, I see your typical player as some sort of 3, 7 or 8 Sp/Sx James Bond type. players are typically the loner in the back who infiltrates the group, steals their target away and sneaks off with them. Social doms lack the dark, mysterious energy that draws (usually) women in and evokes their curiosity and impure fantasies
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    @Elfboy with sp-doms, you just have to wait them out till they fully give. Took a year with mine - and a quid pro quo policy, but eventually he did. I was entirely willing to walk away as well if he decided not to. Once they decide though (at least with sp-sx, no clue with sp-so)...they're all in and you will be assimilated. There is no going back. So I tend to use that time that they need to step out of their comfort zone to do my own homework on them and see if they're for me
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    @Elfboy with sp-doms, you just have to wait them out till they fully give. Took a year with mine - and a quid pro quo policy, but eventually he did. I was entirely willing to walk away as well if he decided not to. Once they decide though (at least with sp-sx, no clue with sp-so)...they're all in and you will be assimilated. There is no going back. So I tend to use that time that they need to step out of their comfort zone to do my own homework on them and see if they're for me
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    As a (very monogamous) sp-dom, if I am unhappy in a relationship, I end it, vs engage in intimacy with another.
    Idk if that's got to do with self preservation or..
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    @Lexicon
    what if you're happy with the relationship (ie, it provides you with some level of intimacy and support) but you just don't feel like you're getting enough or that it is sufficient to fulfill all of your needs? if I were to cheat, those would be my reasonings.
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