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    IRL is not real Cimarron's Avatar
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    I don't even know who (what kind of "personality") I want to date. When you ask this question, I can only analyze the answer "theoretically"... Can't really feel a "gut-feeling" on this one.
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    I know I would.

    So/Sx IFP girl would be fine too. Totally different energies therefore totally different expectations from me.

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    I like the sp/sx energy. I find it exciting without being exhausting.
    This.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HollyGolightly View Post
    Sometimes I do because it would just be easier. But I know I would feel unhappy and dissatisfied.
    Yeah sort of this, I would be fighting with myself over it internally.

    I want it easier but then again I don't want it too easy. I guess it is just a way to whine, so perhaps, you (OP) the sx, should just practise some patience a bit, unless it is clearly a dead end zone.

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    Yes actually, i have actually said that i want to find a female version of me. Although i have such strong sp that i cant even slightly identify with sx or so, so maybe it isn't the same way for someone with a more balanced secondary.

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    Hell no. I am not attracted to guys who are just like me or a lot like me. I want a good chunk of difference (in appereance and personality). The idea of dating myself is REALLY unappealing.
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    I wouldn't mind it. I think I have noticed that I click faster and deeper with sp/sx's. But really I have noticed that I can get intimate and feel satisfied with that intimacy, with anyone that's not sx last. Not that it really determines anything. If there's a bond then it doesn't matter.
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    No. I would never want to date someone like me. It might suggest a healthier attitude if I did though.
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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    No, but I wish I could date someone that's a de facto mix of sp & sx like a sexual 5. I've wondered if that's the perfect set-up.

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    I want to date someone with a similar sense of self preservation...

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    Nah, it's more important that the sx is in there somewhere.

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