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    Default How do other instinctual types see Sx Dom ?

    I personally find the instinctual variants incredibly different. And I was curious what So & Sp dominant types thought of Sx Dom folks. What are our positives, negatives etc. Just curious for an outsiders objective perspective of the Sx dominant type.
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    I'm an sp dom and I have sx last in my instinctual stacking. In my experience I have initially found sx doms to be intense and in my space. Sometimes this scares me away lol. However two out of three of my long term relationships have been with sx doms and I seem to be in "flirtationships" with sx doms quite a lot. Once I am comfortable I do appreciate how they keep asking me questions (the ones I have known ask a lot of questions as if they can't wait to know me) and it makes me feel special rather than intruded upon.
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    Positives: You're intense and passionate beings
    Negativies: You're too intense and passionate about things
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    Nothing to complain about..I can appreciate their candidness.

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    I've noticed most sx-doms take pride in being sx-dom.

    Hmm, on a serious note:

    Positives: brings intensity that I desire to the relationship, don't usually get weirded out if I get cheesy about our relationship, a touch of possessiveness I find cute
    Negatives: can be overly clingy which might drive me away, sometimes the intensity they bring seems out of place so it's more melodramatic
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    I've noticed most sx-doms take pride in being sx-dom.
    usually, but not for this Sp wannabe
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    usually, but not for this Sp wannabe
    *pets* I wouldn't have you any other way.
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    I like how Sx-doms get right to the core of things -- it can catch me off guard, but is a pleasant surprise and doesn't make me uncomfortable. On the other hand, the clinginess that Chanaynay mentioned can be a turn-off. Tough to be with someone who wants to be mentally one with you, when you personally need breathing space from time to time.

    (This applies in romantic and platonic relationships.)

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    Positives: You're intense and passionate beings
    Negativies: You're too intense and passionate about things
    This. Totally.
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    I must admit, I totally get self conscious sometimes because I know I'm a little much, lol!!

    I guess it's okay so long I try to remember to take a break every now and then from the intensity. I just can't help it sometimes. I'm like this with all my close friends (even platonic), I just want to eat them up they're so adorable. I get all aggressive energy that just wants to hug them to death.

    I think this was a good reminder. Not to kill my friends with "too much". They never leave scared away mostly but I just sense it that I'm too much. Makes me feel all sorts of embarrassed for being that way. Lol.
    6w7 Sx/Sp (621 or 612. Same diff :p).

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    Quote Originally Posted by NK258 View Post
    I must admit, I totally get self conscious sometimes because I know I'm a little much, lol!!

    I guess it's okay so long I try to remember to take a break every now and then from the intensity. I just can't help it sometimes. I'm like this with all my close friends (even platonic), I just want to eat them up they're so adorable. I get all aggressive energy that just wants to hug them to death.

    I think this was a good reminder. Not to kill my friends with "too much". They never leave scared away mostly but I just sense it that I'm too much. Makes me feel all sorts of embarrassed for being that way. Lol.
    Aww don't be embarrassed. It's nice you feel so much affection. What I wanted from my sx friends and significant others was to realise I do feel the same amount of affection for them but I express it in a different way. I've often wondered if I seem to withdrawn and at times aloof to sx doms. My mom is sx dom and I think she feels I am too stand offish sometimes but I honestly do feel very close to her. She's also an enneatype two so she's a walking huggle machine :p
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