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    Senior Member Sanjuro's Avatar
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    To be honest, I resist seeing myself as being that dependent on another person's presence. I can be very denying of the fact that I need someone, and become rejecting.

    But I know well the frustration and longing when the only person in the world you want to spend time with has to "go to bed now" or "must take a bathroom break". It's like, YOU CAN'T JUST LEAVE ME HANGING HERE. You've got "real life" to attend to? I DEMAND you come back here and talk to me for 12 more hours!

    More often, this happens with my private interests, however, which I tend to obsess over till they burn out.

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    As Long As It Takes.... Redbone's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanjuro View Post

    But I know well the frustration and longing when the only person in the world you want to spend time with has to "go to bed now" or "must take a bathroom break". It's like, YOU CAN'T JUST LEAVE ME HANGING HERE. You've got "real life" to attend to? I DEMAND you come back here and talk to me for 12 more hours!
    I really relate to this. I perceive this as putting on the brakes and I really don't want to. I want to burn through everything. I try to hide this (I don't think I do a good job)...it drives people away. It's probably good to be with someone that is not sx-dom. On a side note, I seem to be attracted to so-doms and then end up in a situation where I have too much intensity and they don't have enough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinker683 View Post
    ...that when he finds someone that he connects with very strongly, that he finds very interesting, and then when he loses that connection...he feels like a drug addict who needs his fix?

    Gah, this is tormenting!
    I'm very selective on who I let in and get close to so I don't really experience this. Maybe it's an INTJ 6 thing (cautious/careful). I do feel sadness however which lingers when I lose the connection due to some situational or proximity related thing after a relationship has been built up over a period of time.

    Quote Originally Posted by tinker683 View Post

    I wonder if Sx-doms are FAR more prone to obsessive personalities than other types?
    Probably

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