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[sx] Sx doms and a deep hatred for porn

The Great One

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So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?
 

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I wouldn't say hate necessarily, but I rarely think it's sexy. It's just way too phony and contrived.
 
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I just think it's boring and it gets in the way of deep connection IME. It seems to condition sexual response. I'm wary when a guy I'm interested in is really into porn. The kind of sex a guy then seems to want is very contrived and elaborate in ways that are hard to connect with right out of the gate. It has almost nothing to do with me, is not inspired by our bond, and is as though he just wants me to play a particular part. Feels weird, like the person is in a trance sometimes. Instant disconnect.
 

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I wouldn't say hate necessarily, but I rarely think it's sexy. It's just way too phony and contrived.
yeah

I mean seriously, couldn't they at least try to make it sound natural? I would much rather get off to a movie where the characters had real chemistry.
 

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Wait.....what?

This is a thing?:huh:
 

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It reminds me of chopping meat. Or splitting a chicken open. Brutal and repellent. Insert this into that...there's no heat, no intensity. I can't stand it.

And echoes [MENTION=4806]violaine[/MENTION] 's comment. Nothing more unpleasant than getting into bed with someone who is using you as a prop to a porn script he's got running in his head. Or is so conditioned to responding to porn, sex with a person no longer does it for them.

ha...you're right about being an sx-dom [MENTION=10082]Starry[/MENTION]
 

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Ughh omg yes to all of those comments.

It's just so disconnected. Exactly. And about made up bs people that don't exist.
 

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Also there's just no fire. That's like the main reason it's not hot.
 

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I don't think I'm sx dom. I think it can be hot, but only if it's done right; I agree it's usually kind of stupid and gross, just fake. I'd rather spy on hot neighbors. (You know, hypothetically.) It should be beautiful at least. My Sp and Sx are about equal, so I can agree with both sides.

Interesting if this is a thing. Kind of makes sense, being more into the metaphysical aspects of sex than the physical.
 

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Yeah, no thanks.

Edit: lol, lady x. The lack of fire is definitely one of the main reasons it's not hot. Although I'm sure there's fire porn with people burning the crap out of each other and loooving it though :laugh:
 

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Hehe haha you know what I mean!
 

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I like porn.
 

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I don't watch porn. Makes me feel like I'm turning into Carl from Aqua Teen Hunger Force.
 
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I'd rather spy on hot neighbors. (You know, hypothetically.)

Ha!
[MENTION=15607]The Great One[/MENTION]

I think I'm SP/SX and while I've tried to enjoy porn, I have many of the same observations as others in this thread. It's much more boring than it is sexy. It looks fake, brutal, and clinical, and those aren't the kinds of things I'm turned on by. I can't say I have a "deep hatred" for it like others, because I know there are happy couples who enjoy it together, and I don't think it's harmful when used responsibly.

Like [MENTION=5684]Elfboy[/MENTION], I'd much sooner enjoy a convincing love scene in a well made movie with great characterization than see some defenseless looking busty lady get pounded by the pizza guy.
 

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Depends on the porn. If it's amateur porn, I'll watch it, but if it's some earnest production, then I'm not interested.
 

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I used to watch it, but I lost interest, basically because it's so contrived and phoney. It lacks almost everything that makes real sex so...yummy.
 

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Amateur works.

If the girl is hot enough I'll cross over into other varieties occasionally.
 

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I don't hate it, I just think it looks really fake. Last time I watched porn I couldn't stop thinking things like:
  • 'I don't think that feels good.'
  • 'You're faking that orgasm.'
  • 'No one squeaks that satisfied when they get fucked in the ass.'
  • 'So you're sucking off someone who just performed anal on another person two seconds ago and you're looking like it's tasty? Your parents did a great job preventing to raise a picky eater!'
  • 'That's yogurt.'
  • 'That's not how fingering works.'
  • 'Aren't your legs tired yet?'
  • 'That looks painful... did you just give birth to triplets?'
  • 'I'd never do him. Except if he had a nice personality. But you just met him, so that's probably not the case.'
  • 'Are you drunk? Cause you look drunk. Your eyes are barely open.'
  • 'That's physically impossible for, you know, NORMAL people.'
  • 'I can see you don't actually enjoy this.'
  • 'Slow it down. Don't pretend your penis is a toothbrush and her vagina is a dirty set of teeth that needs to be cleaned.'

Not a success, really.
 

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So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?

I'm not an Sx dom, but I do have a deep hatred for porn. To me, sex as depicted in porn looks bizarre, frightening, or disgusting, or a combination of the above. It also takes all the intensity out of it, and makes it look mechanical. I'm really glad actual sex (at least in my experience) is nothing like porn.
 
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