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    Default Sx doms and a deep hatred for porn

    So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?

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    I wouldn't say hate necessarily, but I rarely think it's sexy. It's just way too phony and contrived.

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    I just think it's boring and it gets in the way of deep connection IME. It seems to condition sexual response. I'm wary when a guy I'm interested in is really into porn. The kind of sex a guy then seems to want is very contrived and elaborate in ways that are hard to connect with right out of the gate. It has almost nothing to do with me, is not inspired by our bond, and is as though he just wants me to play a particular part. Feels weird, like the person is in a trance sometimes. Instant disconnect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chana View Post
    I wouldn't say hate necessarily, but I rarely think it's sexy. It's just way too phony and contrived.
    yeah

    I mean seriously, couldn't they at least try to make it sound natural? I would much rather get off to a movie where the characters had real chemistry.
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    Wait.....what?

    This is a thing?

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    It reminds me of chopping meat. Or splitting a chicken open. Brutal and repellent. Insert this into that...there's no heat, no intensity. I can't stand it.

    And echoes @violaine 's comment. Nothing more unpleasant than getting into bed with someone who is using you as a prop to a porn script he's got running in his head. Or is so conditioned to responding to porn, sex with a person no longer does it for them.

    ha...you're right about being an sx-dom @Starry

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    Ughh omg yes to all of those comments.

    It's just so disconnected. Exactly. And about made up bs people that don't exist.
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    Also there's just no fire. That's like the main reason it's not hot.
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    I don't think I'm sx dom. I think it can be hot, but only if it's done right; I agree it's usually kind of stupid and gross, just fake. I'd rather spy on hot neighbors. (You know, hypothetically.) It should be beautiful at least. My Sp and Sx are about equal, so I can agree with both sides.

    Interesting if this is a thing. Kind of makes sense, being more into the metaphysical aspects of sex than the physical.

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    Yeah, no thanks.

    Edit: lol, lady x. The lack of fire is definitely one of the main reasons it's not hot. Although I'm sure there's fire porn with people burning the crap out of each other and loooving it though
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