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[sx] Sx doms and a deep hatred for porn

xisnotx

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if you can't find porn you think is good, then you're not looking hard enough.

of course, personally, there is some porn that i absolutely detest...

but there are also some foods i absolutely detest...it doesn't mean i've stopped eating!

i think i'm actually so/sx.

sp? yeah, i'm nothing if not self destructive. don't know what <----- that guy was thinking..
 

Siúil a Rúin

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I don't like porn, and it is partly because it is boring with little or no eroticism. There are some deeply sexual films I adore that can be explicit, but in a more all encompassing way.
 

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I like p0rn that is "real", which typically means amateur (non scripted). Other stuff doesn't do much for me.
 
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ndovjtjcaqidthi

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And the last one tore a picture
From the pornographic page
When all the pleasure points attacking
All the looks of love were staged
And it's a lie that you've been given
That just hurts you every day
So why should i lay here naked
When it's just too far away
From anything we could call loving
Any love worth living for
So I'll sleep out in the gutter
You can sleep here on the floor
And when I wake up in the morning
I won't forget to lock the door
Because with a match that's mean and some gasoline
You won't see me anymore
 

Calliope

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Most of the people I know who are really into porn are virgins.
I identify more as asexual than anything so I have no opinion.
 

look.sky.ward

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So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?

That's funny and an astute observation.
I don't hate it. I just think it's very unrealistic and promotes a distorted view of sex.
It can be educational, however.:newwink:
 

look.sky.ward

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if you can't find porn you think is good, then you're not looking hard enough.

of course, personally, there is some porn that i absolutely detest...

but there are also some foods i absolutely detest...it doesn't mean i've stopped eating!

i think i'm actually so/sx.

sp? yeah, i'm nothing if not self destructive. don't know what <----- that guy was thinking..

An infp guy friend of mine enjoys hentai very much.
 

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I do hate most porn. I do appreciate a select few amateur videos however.

But most porn is awful.
Why the hell would you do that on someone's face?

I don't care what Nikki Benz does with her body, I'm not close shaving down there, deal widdit.
 

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I love porn, but I hate skimming through all the horrible crap to find the 1% that actually turns me on (which is : amateur videos here an there & some specific kinky stuff). That 1% is basically stuff where you can see she is enjoying it as well. I particulary hate overlighted American porn staring unnatural females covered in makeup (initially). There's lots of room left for improvement in the porn biz (http://www.philosophersmail.com/120314-relationships-porn.php).

if you can't find porn you think is good, then you're not looking hard enough.
of course, personally, there is some porn that i absolutely detest...
but there are also some foods i absolutely detest...it doesn't mean i've stopped eating!

Quoted for truth.
They're not looking hard enough, but more often they're lying. Everybody loves some kind of porn. Just look at how much money is involved.
 

Tomb1

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Not true ime.
not only do lots of sexual firsts screw for a living even but they break records in the process...in its purest, most biological state (well, instinctual variants are never not biological), the sexual instinct is the coldest, most physically-oriented and sexually aggressive of the instincts. It's neither about forming deep, intimate connections with others nor losing the self in another. this bonding/intimacy is sometimes confused with sx-first but bonding is actually social first, losing the self in the other, having an aversion to seeing sex denigrated...the higher up in the air "loftiness" of so/sp is way more prone to have an issue with porn's treatment of sex.
 
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Tem

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So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?
I'm absolutely obsessed with porn, but the weird kind. The normal stuff is dry I'd rather watch infomercials.
 

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Curious: Was that in response to someone, or just a general rant?

You made a good point that sex is a biological instinct and thus something akin to food in some ways, but you went FAR to the extreme at the end there.

Case in point:
I haven't had sex for almost five years.
Of course I haven't been in a relationship either.
On occasion, sure, self-stimulation... but really not that much at all.

Yes, I could find someone to screw around with, I suppose -- and pretty easily, but I haven't.
Despite REALLY wanting to have sex sometimes.
The reality is that I actually like sex
A lot.

Why haven't I?
Because I don't really like the idea of casual sex.
I'd feel better about it if it's someone i care about.
So i just end up not having sex.
It wouldn't actually fulfill me, even if physically I might enjoy it.

And yeah, I'm an SX/sp.

So sorry... maybe you do need to revise things there a bit. You seem to be viewing it as totally black and white, and putting people at the extremes. Reality is somewhere in-between.
 

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I'm absolutely obsessed with porn, but the weird kind. The normal stuff is dry I'd rather watch infomercials.

agreed. if im watching it, i can tell a fake a mile off. tbh i prefer amature stuff where the intensity leaps off the screen. literary porn is also prety cool. first time through a book can be hard to know where to jump to when you need to get off, but once read its much easier to refer back to. ive also had the pleasure of listning to some recorded sesions (ie live not disco cut and pasted) that were downright hellish. ( think flames and intence). im picky about my porn. its less about the normal classifications found on said sites, and more to do with is it fake or is it real. you may be surprized to learn that not all professional porn is fake. the best is when you get an expert with an amature...or newly fledged professional.
 
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