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[sx] Sx doms and a deep hatred for porn

Redbone

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So it looks like girls don't like porn.

Shocker....

Don't like fake stuff.

Not shocking....

Watching the real thing is very different (and highly exciting).
 

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My mother was big on sex education...and would literally lecture us kids auditorium-style on the topic repeatedly when we were growing-up. I laugh though because (NF) she also infused these highly scientific lessons with images of *undying love*...and yes *fire* and romantic tragedy and maybe beds made of clouds & waterfalls or something...

And so when I was 16 or so...when a couple of friends suggested sneaking porn I was so 100% for it thinking I would see something quite heavenly... and omfg. I'm still dealing with the scars haha!
 

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I dislike most porn in general, because it causes sex to be associated with degrading women. Plus, quite frankly it grosses me out. Triple penetration: ew. Reminds me of tentacles aliens.
 

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I can only think that it pricks some folks' sx-first insecurities.

I'd also agree that a lot of it's fake, lame, and ultimately unrealistic enough that it quickly gets boring. LOL.
 

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Also there's just no fire. That's like the main reason it's not hot.

Yeah that bothers me too.

I don't watch porn. Makes me feel like I'm turning into Carl from Aqua Teen Hunger Force.

Yeah I hated that guy too, but the was funny though.

Amateur works.

If the girl is hot enough I'll cross over into other varieties occasionally.

I like to watch couples sex. That can be interesting.

So it looks like girls don't like porn.

Shocker....

I wouldn't use the term "shocker" in a thread about porn.
 

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I like pictures of people I find attractive but not the videos.
 

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So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?

Why would the "animalistic" quality exclude "intensity"???

I'm talking in general, not necessarily about porn.

I think I'm sx-dom, I don't hate porn but I don't really watch it either, my thing is the real thing, not watching it alone passively. Most I enjoyed porn was when it wasn't too unnatural porn and I watched it with a partner but this doesn't happen often. I find quite a few men either are too shy about it or outright don't like the idea.

And yeah, quite some porn is just too unnatural too, with women having such uh, bored faces.


So it looks like girls don't like porn.

Shocker....

You and your stereotypes.
 
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Porn does nothing for me because its all about male fantasies and many of them seem stupid or gross. I'd rather not know this is how many men perceive women, life is depressing enough as it is. On top of that a couple of people all lubed up and banging away like its a marathon just doesn't say fun to me. I look at this and think about the friction burns and chaffing....silly practical me.

I run plenty of porn in my head the difference is....
- theres a story attached
- It involves people I care about or someone I have at least some mental connection to
- the mood lighting is a lot better. Lets face it naked people are ugly most of the time, a bit of twilight, candleight or full on pitch black only improves the visuals for me.
 

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So I'm noticing that many Sx doms have deep hatred for porn. I guess that it makes sex look animalistic and takes all of the intensity out of it. Is this true? Do sx doms generally hate porn?

* raises hand sheepishly *

I think it has been more conscious effort work to make myself feel more secure with my body from the "perfection" of porn. I think not all of it is bad but I'm not necessarily a fan. Also, the intensity is not something I personally can feel from watching porn, if anything it's nauseating. If I had to be a fan of something I would put my vote on literary porn. :p
 

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* raises hand sheepishly *

I think it has been more conscious effort work to make myself feel more secure with my body from the "perfection" of porn. I think not all of it is bad but I'm not necessarily a fan. Also, the intensity is not something I personally can feel from watching porn, if anything it's nauseating. If I had to be a fan of something I would put my vote on literary porn. :p

Again I like to watch couple's porn, it's more intimate and intense.
 

valaki

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Lets face it naked people are ugly most of the time, a bit of twilight, candleight or full on pitch black only improves the visuals for me.

depends what people we're talking about

sporty or fat? etc etc
 

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After lots of reading and self-examination I believe I am sx/so (with very strong social), and I don't have a deep hatred for porn. I used to watch amateur porn with my ex and found it to be intense and real, something commercial porn is not, so there is a distinction to be made.

I agree that watching a well-done love scene can be very intoxicating...watching people kiss is very erotic (notice my avatar).
 

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Uhh...no. I'm quite fond of porn actually :)
 
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I agree it seems too phony and it takes all the real intensity out of everything.Like they just want to get the job done and get their money.Which they do.
 

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I know Nihlogen just necro'd this thread, but I find it too interesting to resist. How many of you sx-doms-who-hate-porn are female?
 
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