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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Qwan View Post
    Well, for one thing, the "hivemind" around me might not like me trying to be overtly different and might hurt me, OR somebody might misinterpret my having fun and my desire to stand out as a personal flaw...
    ...The way the world works now, I must think far into the future about every little decision I make.
    This is because you live with uptight, closed-minded, SJ parents with a stick up their ass. I feel bad for you.

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    Do you think it's possible for an So-first to become a porn actress? That's like the ultimate anti-So profession. Only So-doms I can see doing it are So/Sx 7s or 8w7s.


    I say porn actresses because I feel like the male "peer group" considers it less taboo for men to sleep around for a living. Lots of men envy famous porn actors, whereas not as many women are gonna look up to porn actresses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    I feel incredibly or subtly self-conscious when doing things like eating in public or even pulling out a book on the subway as if everyone around me is watching me vigilantly as I do it, whereas I'd imagine So-lasts being completely oblivious to this feeling.
    This is one is funny. I am sometimes oblivious like that and have it pointed out. People seem to find it amusing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honor View Post
    Even when you don't get along with someone or break up with someone, you still want to leave things on good terms so everyone can co-exist in the same group.
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    When you find sx-doms chasing after you, hands and arms outstretched, wanting to grab and do stuff to you?

    Or am I the only one who does this?
    Not actually the case with me. I usually have to be the one to chase people down, even if they're sx-first. It gets tiring, but if you want something to happen and no one's making it happen, then it's your job to get it done.

    Yet another sign of being So-dom (and an extrovert): When you suddenly aren't sure whether your "role" in the group as their event-host and event-planner is even wanted, because no one hosts or plans anything when you aren't there.
    Quote Originally Posted by skylights View Post
    My point being, I don't think the variants necessarily force or repress behavior so much as they create higher levels of awareness of how your actions will impact a certain sphere, so you may be more or less likely to act because you understand the consequences of those actions more or less fully.
    ^ @The Great One, this is a better way of phrasing what I was trying to tell you about instincts on your other thread today.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    Do you think it's possible for an So-first to become a porn actress? That's like the ultimate anti-So profession. Only So-doms I can see doing it are So/Sx 7s or 8w7s.
    I wouldn't want it as a profession. Though I've always considered making a video or two with my partner for fun.

    I feel incredibly or subtly self-conscious when doing things like eating in public or even pulling out a book on the subway as if everyone around me is watching me vigilantly as I do it, whereas I'd imagine So-lasts being completely oblivious to this feeling.
    It depends for me - I never go to the city by myself so I actually only tend to focus on the people I'm with and forget about everyone else. In fact, my friends had to shush me today because I ended up swearing in front of a child and her mother next to us because I didn't realize they were here at all. If I was by myself though I'd probably be a lot more composed because I'd be much more aware of who was around me since there'd be no one to focus on.

    When my friends shushed me though I ended up feeling like shit on the bus ride home because they lectured me about it. It's probably the Fi talking but I don't want to change parts about myself or my actions just because of random strangers around me. I should be allowed to do and say what I want. Harmony is fine and all but it's just swearing. I never understood the whole "bad words" thing in the first place. When did certain words gain such a negative stigma attached to them?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    I wouldn't want it as a profession. Though I've always considered making a video or two with my partner for fun.



    It depends for me - I never go to the city by myself so I actually only tend to focus on the people I'm with and forget about everyone else. In fact, my friends had to shush me today because I ended up swearing in front of a child and her mother next to us because I didn't realize they were here at all. If I was by myself though I'd probably be a lot more composed because I'd be much more aware of who was around me since there'd be no one to focus on.

    When my friends shushed me though I ended up feeling like shit on the bus ride home because they lectured me about it. It's probably the Fi talking but I don't want to change parts about myself or my actions just because of random strangers around me. I should be allowed to do and say what I want. Harmony is fine and all but it's just swearing. I never understood the whole "bad words" thing in the first place. When did certain words gain such a negative stigma attached to them?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    I wouldn't want it as a profession. Though I've always considered making a video or two with my partner for fun.



    It depends for me - I never go to the city by myself so I actually only tend to focus on the people I'm with and forget about everyone else. In fact, my friends had to shush me today because I ended up swearing in front of a child and her mother next to us because I didn't realize they were here at all. If I was by myself though I'd probably be a lot more composed because I'd be much more aware of who was around me since there'd be no one to focus on.

    When my friends shushed me though I ended up feeling like shit on the bus ride home because they lectured me about it. It's probably the Fi talking but I don't want to change parts about myself or my actions just because of random strangers around me. I should be allowed to do and say what I want. Harmony is fine and all but it's just swearing. I never understood the whole "bad words" thing in the first place. When did certain words gain such a negative stigma attached to them?
    I can relate. I feel like once I tap into my secondary-Sx, my So-awareness dwindles significantly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    I can relate. I feel like once I tap into my secondary-Sx, my So-awareness dwindles significantly.
    I actually don't think it's secondary sx. I think it's just so prioritizing who it's important to focus on and who isn't if there are different levels of people in the area. If we're alone, everyone is a stranger so we should either talk to the person sitting next to us or just be quiet until we reach our destination. If you're with friends among strangers, it's more important to act like yourself around your friends than to act like you're one of the fellow strangers around your friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    Do you think it's possible for an So-first to become a porn actress? That's like the ultimate anti-So profession. Only So-doms I can see doing it are So/Sx 7s or 8w7s.


    I say porn actresses because I feel like the male "peer group" considers it less taboo for men to sleep around for a living. Lots of men envy famous porn actors, whereas not as many women are gonna look up to porn actresses.
    Yes it's possible for a SO dom to become a porn actress. Look up an HBO show called, "Sexpert" with Katie Morgan or whatever. The woman is a clear ESFP 7w6 so/sx.

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    Ok I see what you mean now.

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