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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkgraffiti View Post
    This is great!

    However, I analysed your data and found (t-student) no significant difference between so-doms, sp-doms and sx-doms
    sweet!! thanks!! i forget how to do stastical testing xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by skylights View Post
    sweet!! thanks!! i forget how to do stastical testing xD
    got about the same results as you, btw! interesting that sx/sp tend to have fewer fb friends than sp/sx. i justified this by figuring that sx's probably get into more fights (or feel more strongly one way or another about people and are thus pickier) than so or sp types.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Honor View Post
    got about the same results as you, btw! interesting that sx/sp tend to have fewer fb friends than sp/sx. i justified this by figuring that sx's probably get into more fights (or feel more strongly one way or another about people and are thus pickier) than so or sp types.
    Pickier, yes. Also, I find facebook incredibly dissatisfying. There is no thrill to it. It's just people sharing information about their kids or some political cause or what they ate for dinner. Bleh. Who gives a shit?

    I always feel more alone and depressed when I get off it. This is not the sort of human interaction I seek. I have a handful of fb friends and it still feels like too much. I avoid fb as much as possible.

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    I find Social media pretty boring and repetitive, partly because I barely get attention on it.

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    @skylights

    For me, the way I experience feeling "seen" is just being very aware that I am seen.

    Sometimes it does manifest as being too anxious about judgment to act. On one of my earliest dates with my boyfriend, I was so nervous about eating messily in front of him that I barely ate at all. Ironically, he took that as me not liking the food or the restaurant, which was not true at all - I wanted to shove that chicken sandwich in my face! But I was so, so nervous of him seeing me be sloppy, and I have always had body image issues, so I shy very far from doing anything people might perceive as gluttonous.

    But other times, it manifests as purposefully being the one to break convention. Not long ago, my mom and I were waiting outside a fancy restaurant for the rest of our party to arrive. It was packed indoors and out, and there was nowhere left to sit. We'd been travelling for days and were both exhausted. She asked me if she thought it'd be all right if we sat on the curb, and I said absolutely. Just for reference, she - sp/so - was more hesitant than me. That could be attributed to any number of factors - her being FJ, her being 2w1, her being of an older and more conservative generation, etc. Regardless, I plopped right on down. The way I saw it, they didn't have any other seating, it was outside the establishment, and we chose a place that was out of everyone's way. It might have been unconventional, but it certainly wasn't hurting anyone, and if anyone was really upset about it, there are a lot more productive things they could be doing with that energy. I was very aware of what we were doing and how others might perceive it, but I also made the judgment call that it wasn't a "bad" action to take. And yes, I would have done it if I were alone, too.

    Even though I'm a Social 6, which is supposedly a sort of stuffy type, I'm still a little quirky and I own it. I generally dress how I feel like dressing, based on what I find aesthetic and what feels comfortable. I don't really like sitting on chairs unless they're big and squishy - for whatever reason I find standard sitting position fairly uncomfortable - and I seek out ledges and clean floor spaces and wide enough seats to sit cross-legged when I can. I don't think I've danced at the grocery store lately, but I used to twirl down all the aisles when I was little, I always get a kid's cookie, and I do tend to strike up informal games of hide-and-seek with my shopping partner.

    My point being, I don't think the variants necessarily force or repress behavior so much as they create higher levels of awareness of how your actions will impact a certain sphere, so you may be more or less likely to act because you understand the consequences of those actions more or less fully.
    Yeah the curb thing wouldn't really be a big deal to me, but I think I know what you mean by this and you have illustrated the point well. I do similar things and worry what others will think as well, but I'm not sure if I can attribute this to an SO variant or a 3w2 fix. For instance, I used to drive everywhere in my car, but then the damn thing got repossessed and now I'm takin the bus (cars are so damn expensive to own). Anyway, when I first started taking it, I started looking everywhere around me and I almost "felt" eyes on me watching me and telling me, "You're a loser for taking this bus and not having a car! Real men can afford cars!" So this haunted me for a while, but after taking the bus for a long while, I'm used to it now. However I still feel like a loser deep inside for taking it, and can't wait until I can afford a damn car again!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    @skylights



    Yeah the curb thing wouldn't really be a big deal to me, but I think I know what you mean by this and you have illustrated the point well. I do similar things and worry what others will think as well, but I'm not sure if I can attribute this to an SO variant or a 3w2 fix. For instance, I used to drive everywhere in my car, but then the damn thing got repossessed and now I'm takin the bus (cars are so damn expensive to own). Anyway, when I first started taking it, I started looking everywhere around me and I almost "felt" eyes on me watching me and telling me, "You're a loser for taking this bus and not having a car! Real men can afford cars!" So this haunted me for a while, but after taking the bus for a long while, I'm used to it now. However I still feel like a loser deep inside for taking it, and can't wait until I can afford a damn car again!
    With me, I worry about what my actions will be interpreted as. I have plenty of issues regarding that.

    I also think that being So-Dom makes me conform, even when it hurts...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Qwan View Post
    With me, I worry about what my actions will be interpreted as. I have plenty of issues regarding that.

    I also think that being So-Dom makes me conform, even when it hurts...
    I conform to avoid getting hurt sometimes. I don't do it to "fit in".

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    I conform to avoid getting hurt sometimes. I don't do it to "fit in".
    I actually desire to stand out, but I'm not going do something that I'll regret years down the road...
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    I say this as a reminder to myself, but this goes for everyone:

    You can achieve anything you set your mind to, and you are limited only by how dedicated you are to succeed!

    -Magic Qwan

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Qwan View Post
    I actually desire to stand out, but I'm not going do something that I'll regret years down the road...
    How would you regret it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    How would you regret it?
    Well, for one thing, the "hivemind" around me might not like me trying to be overtly different and might hurt me, OR somebody might misinterpret my having fun and my desire to stand out as a personal flaw...
    ...The way the world works now, I must think far into the future about every little decision I make.
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    I say this as a reminder to myself, but this goes for everyone:

    You can achieve anything you set your mind to, and you are limited only by how dedicated you are to succeed!

    -Magic Qwan

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