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    Default Sx doms and people with strong sx + being around people that you don't like

    So what is it like for sx doms and people with strong sx to be around people that they don't like? I would theorize that they have a difficult time being around people that they don't like? Personally, if I don't vibe with a person, right off the bat, then I pretty much just don't talk to them. It's like I just feel no connection to this person, so why should I talk to them? People often view this as being "cold" or "rude", but it's like I just can't help it. Sx doms and people with strong sx, what's it like to be around people that you don't like?

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    I just sort of say "yeah" and give them a closed mouth smile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    I just sort of say "yeah" and give them a closed mouth smile.
    How difficult is it for you to be around them though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    How difficult is it for you to be around them though.
    Hard. Sometimes I don't mind and I just entertain myself through banter. An entire day would be terrible, but I can handle a 5-10 minute walk to the train.

    If I'm at lunch and they're the only person i know there, I might sit for a few moments and see if we can find some sort of spark, otherwise I'll just finish my food and make up an excuse to leave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    Hard. Sometimes I don't mind and I just entertain myself through banter. An entire day would be terrible, but I can handle a 5-10 minute walk to the train.

    If I'm at lunch and they're the only person i know there, I might sit for a few moments and see if we can find some sort of spark, otherwise I'll just finish my food and make up an excuse to leave.
    I relate completely. However, I would ask, "What percentage of people can you successfully click with?" For me it's a very small amount of people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    I relate completely. However, I would ask, "What percentage of people can you successfully click with?" For me it's a very small amount of people.
    I really can't say. If you're talking about people ive actually had a long lasting chemistry with, its a small number.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    I really can't say. I think I generally click the most with seemingly Sp-last people.
    Could you easily click or maybe even date someone that is sx last?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Could you easily click or maybe even date someone that is sx last?
    I've had friends who were So/Sp, but I can't see it working in intimate situation at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Could you easily click or maybe even date someone that is sx last?
    I've had friends who were So/Sp, but I can't see it working in intimate situation at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    I've had friends who were So/Sp, but I can't see it working in intimate situation at all.
    Yeah I don't work well with women that are sx last either. I just feel like there's no intensity between us. It's like that movie "Ghost" with Patrick Swayze. I feel like I'm the woman reaching out to kiss my S.O. and it's like they are invisible and aren't even there. It's like you just feel nothing between one another.

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