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    Quote Originally Posted by tinker683 View Post
    Actually dating someone I was limerent towards was one of the most powerful and compelling connections and feelings I've ever had. I think everyone should be so lucky as to be able to fall in love with your limerent object
    Word, brother. Best thing in the world.
    You hem me in -- behind and before;
    you have laid your hand upon me.
    Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
    too lofty for me to attain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    If you're so disturbed by the incident, report it. I just don't care about the whinings of some hyper sensitive NF that I neither know nor have cause to give two shits about.
    So, because I don't appreciate disrespectful attitudes, that makes me a "hyper-sensitive NF"? Not someone with a sense of dignity, or someone who simply wondered why another individual would reply to a random user in a way that may or may not have been friendly and humorous? Yeah, go on, keep thinking that way--I'll wind up understanding people better than you at this rate.

    And, you don't give a shit about me...congrats. Though I'd ask why you bother taking the time to respond if that's the way you feel.
    Last edited by Sanjuro; 08-22-2013 at 07:52 AM. Reason: Hee hee..more mayhem.

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    "Captain. Lifeform readings detect no limerence here. May we continue with the thread, or do you still plan to order an evacuation?"
    "Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"

    “Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    If you're so disturbed by the incident, report it. I just don't care about the whinings of some hyper sensitive NF that I neither know nor have cause to give two shits about.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sanjuro View Post
    So, because I don't appreciate disrespectful attitudes, that makes me a "hyper-sensitive NF"? Not someone with a sense of dignity, or someone who simply wondered why another individual would reply to a random user in a way that may or may not have been friendly and humorous? Yeah, go on, keep thinking that way--I'll wind up understanding people better than you at this rate.

    And, you don't give a shit about me...congrats. Though I'd ask why you bother taking the time to respond if that's the way you feel.
    mod says

    Knock it off, kids.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bologna View Post
    mod says

    Knock it off, kids.
    but they're so cuuuuuuute!!!!

    "Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"

    “Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft

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    maybe i don't get this limerence thing.
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wikipedia
    Limerence is an involuntary state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person combined with an overwhelming, obsessive need to have one's feelings reciprocated....
    Sounds like several stalkers I've had to deal with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaguar View Post
    Sounds like several stalkers I've had to deal with.
    Pretty much, I'm a suppressed stalker. It's a rough life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    @Jennifer I completely relate to that.

    I can feel very strongly for people without them ever knowing because its not really the point from my perspective and don't feel like it always has anything to do with me. Just some people have endeared them self so strongly to me that i feel like I'd do anything for them if needed and was able to. Like just no questions asked what do you need. Ill have your back.

    Or just in my head very concerned with their well being and hope the best for them but they may never even know I care.

    And I feel intense sadness when people evaporate from my life that I feel this way about but I always feel that strong connection. It never goes away even if I may never see them again.

    And I'm talking about friends and romantic partners.

    I don't know if limerence is the right word for me or not but honestly I don't really care either. I'm not super interested in labeling it.

    But I do get the strong impression that I care for people differently than many others. Not better or worse... Just different.

    And I don't think this is something apparent to most people about me.
    This. All of this. Same for me.

    I'm probably sx first but I put such a strangle-hold on it. I'm really, really scared of putting it out there for fear of blasting someone with it. I did a lot of wild, impulsive, and stupid stuff when I was younger so I locked it away. I'm having to learn it back bit by bit (thanks Rex) and channel it in ways that I don't feel I have to choose between locking it away or letting it loose in very self-destructive ways.

    The wiki article was fascinating. It sounds terrible. Painful. I've never experienced it though. Has anyone ever experienced this, had their feelings returned and then it blossomed into something? I would think that would kill it but maybe I'm perverse like that.

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