How do you experience your own dominant and auxiliary instinct in others?
Do you find most kinship with those that share your dominant instinct?
...even if their auxiliary is different?
Do you enjoy those that have your aux as their dominant? Do you admire them, do they irritate you, are they familiar ground?
Do you feel safe with those that have your blind spot as their dominant function, or do they look like aliens to you?
Do you need to share at least one instinct, in the dom or aux position in order to appreciate the other?
Basically, which combination of instincts do you appreciate most in a spouse, a friend, a boss,...
And are they distinctly different? Why so?