Sorry, but the So/Sp is way off for me.
05-22-2013, 08:28 AM #11INFP 4w5 so/sp
I've dreamt in my life dreams that have stayed with me ever after, and changed my ideas;
they've gone through and through me, like wine through water, and altered the colour of my mind.
- Emily Bronte
05-22-2013, 12:24 PM #12brainheartGuest
I would say I am primarily like this:
Sp/sx and sx/sp
The sexual/self-preservation and self-preservation/sexual types tend to have a very one on one style of seduction. Many times they don't like to seduce people through social groups. However sometimes in a social group they will pull aside a person away from everyone else and have a one on one interaction with an individual. It should be well noted that the sx/sp and sp/sx styles of seductions almost always work best one on one. They will quickly create an intense bond between just them and the other individual. The sx/sp and sp/sx style of seduction tends to be very subtle as well and doesn't really come off as in your face.
The sexual/social style of seduction is almost like a tiger hunting for prey. The sexual/social style of seduction is very direct and in your face. There is no confusion as to what the sx/so is after.
05-22-2013, 02:35 PM #13
- Join Date
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- 5 sx
05-22-2013, 04:17 PM #14
05-22-2013, 04:44 PM #15
I'm sp/sx and I don't seduce though I do tend to prefer one on one time with people, and since I generally talk to girls more, it's lead to complications. Sometimes they become interested and for some reason they think I'm also interested in them half the time.
05-23-2013, 12:18 AM #16
05-23-2013, 07:23 AM #17
^ Yeah, sp → sx → so → sp. I don't remember the source for it either, though I do remember reading it.
Like sx moves into the outer world, sp attempts getting super close, and so cleans themselves up.
It's interesting, though, because you'd figure there would be some differences between sx/so and sx/sp in how they go about courting. Maybe the instincts tend to "double up" and sx/so moves into so/sp while sx/sp moves into sp/sx.
At the same time, I also kind of feel like we all tend to broaden scope, attempt intimacy, and do a better job of self-presentation when we're trying to bag someone.
05-23-2013, 08:05 AM #18
05-23-2013, 08:14 AM #19
05-23-2013, 10:02 AM #20
i always have a favourite.
and then i pull them out of line.every normal man must be tempted, at times,
to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag,
and begin slitting throats.
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