And I did take 1:1 literally -- for me, 1:1 would be 1:1 time just me and the other person. I'm totally not opposed to doing things as part of a small group / group activities can be really fun, but I wouldn't ever call a group activity '1:1 time'. Without getting into detail on it, it's not like I'm actually going to get to know someone really well or 'seduce' them (lol) unless we break apart from the group / we do our own thing.
So... I kinda get the OP, but at the same time, I wasn't really sure how accurate it really was, which is why I posted what I did (esp since both myself and another so/sp early on in the thread didn't relate to the so/sp description at all).
11-23-2016, 04:50 PM #111"...On and on and on and on he strode, far out over the sands, singing wildly to the sea, crying to greet the advent of the life that had cried to him." - James Joyce
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11-25-2016, 02:30 PM #112
I didn’t think you were being nitpicky or didn’t comprehend the OP
I actually agreed with your sentiments! I would imagine the many facets of seductions and preferences people have would be difficult to describe simply…
I used to be obsessed with the topic of seduction after watching some TED talks on it. I would frequently grill friends on what it meant to them. I quickly realized that, most everyone had completely varying views on what seduction consisted of:
-liking to observe someone before getting to know them better
-getting the person alone, to find out everything about them
-being properly seduced with a good meal of a food they liked
-clothes that were tight and revealing
-outfits that were flattering but left much to the imagination
-maintaining direct eye contact; without physical touch initially
-direct and lingering touches
and so on and so on.
Our subsets do play a role. As do: how our first experiences shape us, the values of the environment we grew up in, what things we are exposed to, how other’s react to us…
All those aspects involve different levels of social interaction and a large degree of personal preference. Challenging to “categorize”!
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11-25-2016, 02:45 PM #113I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
12-06-2016, 02:22 PM #114
I would agree with the sx/sp and sp/sx style.
02-19-2017, 11:32 PM #115
I typically hone in on one man and seduce him through wit, flirting, and often carefully placed overt notes of sexuality. When I was younger, I would use some playful teasing too (as in making fun of him in a harmless way). It's always been me who has said to men "so, when are you gonna ask me out/ask me to be your girlfriend?" All of a sudden, I find myself much more hesitant to use these methods to "catch" a mate, mostly because I don't wanna settle down with the wrong guy, so instead there is a longer screening process now. It's kind of strange for me because I am used to being extremely confident and in control of the situation - I still am, but it's... a bit different. Doesn't help at all that I am drawn to two men simultaneously atm. It's probably going to boil down to who pursues me harder or wins me over with something special character wise. Guess I'll have to wait and see. Fuck, maybe I'll walk away from both...
02-20-2017, 05:56 AM #116
I'm sx/so xD
Geez. But I'm trying to limit myself now. Before it's easy for me to ask the guy i like. XD which in return also likes me. [emoji14]
But I'm limiting myself now. Because i don't wanna have heartaches again. Hahahahahaha
02-21-2017, 07:09 PM #117
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Sx/So and yeah, pretty accurate, infiltrate, befriend 'target', slide in what seem to be Freudian slips to convey the message, tell shitty jokes that target that person to the whole group, generally, yeah, your description is accurate, then when there's a 3rd opportunity make a move, first chance could be mistake, second could be too soon, but third means they put themselves in a situation for someone to make a move multiple times, so i go for it then, had never thought about it as predator/prey hunting style lol.
02-22-2017, 05:29 PM #118
I'm awful at communicating. Makes me anxious as hell. Usually I just end up studying anyone I'm obsessed with, to learn as much about them as possible. I feel like the moment I give my intentions away, I'm creating a connection the other person was in no way prepared for and will immediately lose it.I am exploiting others as guinea pigs to further my understanding of typology.
I'm a Ti-Ne. My MBTI is listed as ENTJ because from dichotomies alone, that's my best fit.
02-23-2017, 02:50 PM #119
I think I'm too clueless to pull any of these off."May I call you David?” “No, you cannot. You gave me my new name. The least you can do is use it.”
There's no love in fear. - Tool
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