^It's interesting, some of my best dates/first meetings have been with people where they HAVE vomited, and then I can feed off of that and I can be immediately more open about myself, etc. I've always called that 'great chemistry' for lack of a better word, and admittedly I am kind of biased in using that initial closeness as a gauge of possibility. It makes me wonder if in one dating situation years ago where we had that instantaneous glimmer and talking for hours, and the rush/excitement of that, and the following 2-3 weeks being just as close, and then him freaking out suddenly and backing away and my subsequent petrification and hurt and confusion, was something to do with sx/sp sp/sx in action. Perhaps one of the negatives of it? Dunno. I'm still rather haunted by that, and ever since then have been really leery of using the chemistry as a gauge, even though I can't help myself and I DO get excited about those interactions where I really feel it's meaningful and there's a dual openness and....eagerness? Happens rarely though.