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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Do you like Sx doms? What do you think about them?
    I would think they could be a bit smothering for me at times.
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    Its been mentioned before somewhere in this forum about the flow stackings or whatever I think.

    Syn-flow: sp → so → sx → sp
    Stackings involved: sp/so → so/sx → sx/sp → sp/so
    Direction: Compelled toward people. Acting upon and with others as a born insider i.e.- deeply human.

    Contra-flow: sp → sx → so → sp
    Stackings involved: sp/sx → sx/so → so/sp → sp/sx
    Direction: Compelled against people. Seething belligerent outsiders; 'antisocial', provoking, reverse-flow change catalysts. In some profound sense, rejecting the human condition, their own and/or that of others.

    It has been suggested that people with stackings that are part of same flow progression generally have more understanding and smoother interaction because they are channeling their energies in the same direction. Interactions of stackings that are part of the same flow have the potential to cover for one's blindspot instinct as well as reinforce one's own instinctual energy flow. For example: if one person's stacking is sx/sp, this person is directing energy in the following manner sx->sp->so, in which case another person with sp/so stacking will be reinforcing to their weaker secondary sp->so link and covering their SO-last blind spot. On the other hand interactions with people who are channeling their energies in the opposite direction can feel draining, dull, and disorienting in the long term.

    source: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tual-Stackings
    So in theory sp/so get along better with so/sx and sx/sp best. While sp/sx pair better with sx/so and so/sp.

    Makes sense for me (sp/sx). The sp/sx requires someone to draw them out. They are kind of "stuck" so to speak and less accessible than their social variant counterparts. SP and SX are kinda conflicting.

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    I'm not sure if I've ever been as an Sx dom.
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    sx doms can be different flavors of overwhelming, depending on the person. Not always negatively so.
    I'd say I'm attracted more to/get along well with sx/sp's.. probably because I'm sp/sx; complementary, perhaps? /shrug
    sx/so can be charismatic &/or suffocating or emotionally draining.
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    sx/so can be charismatic &/or suffocating or emotionally draining.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EcK View Post
    *sigh*
    03/23 06:06:58 EcK: lex
    03/23 06:06:59 EcK: lex
    03/23 06:21:34 Nancynobullets: LEXXX *sacrifices a first born*
    03/23 06:21:53 Nancynobullets: We summon yooouuu
    03/23 06:29:07 Lexicon: I was sleeping!



    04/25 04:20:35 Patches: Don't listen to lex. She wants to birth a litter of kittens. She doesnt get to decide whats creepy

    02/16 23:49:38 ygolo: Lex is afk
    02/16 23:49:45 Cimarron: she's doing drugs with Jack

    03/05 19:27:41 Time: You can't make chat morbid. Lex does it naturally.

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    I prefer for people to keep their emotions in their heads because I get easily overstimulated in that regard (being an empath and all). So I'm cautious around sx-doms.
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    I'd like an sx-dom partner in life.


    I do withdraw quite easily, though. Lots of potential missteps

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    Its been mentioned before somewhere in this forum about the flow stackings or whatever I think.



    So in theory sp/so get along better with so/sx and sx/sp best. While sp/sx pair better with sx/so and so/sp.

    Makes sense for me (sp/sx). The sp/sx requires someone to draw them out. They are kind of "stuck" so to speak and less accessible than their social variant counterparts. SP and SX are kinda conflicting.
    Maybe for a sp/sx.
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    My boyfriend is Sp-dom, so I guess he likes me all right.

    We have the expected tension between him needing more independence and me needing more intensity/depth. But we also have discussed how it works out that he likes a lot of demonstrated affection but has a hard time giving it, whereas I seem to ooze it but appreciate someone who is less outwardly demonstrative. I also think my e6 overlaps a lot with his Sp and his 9 overlaps a lot with my Sx.

    Quote Originally Posted by jontherobot View Post
    I'd like an sx-dom partner in life.


    I do withdraw quite easily, though. Lots of potential missteps
    One of the best things you can do is let your hypothetical Sx-dom know when you are withdrawing - it's not so much the alone time that is threatening but the potential loss of connection. My SO and I will have "alone" time together; right now we are sitting across from one another and doing separate things on our laptops. He also helps me by letting me know when he needs some time all by himself or to do things with his friends, so I can plan to go drown myself in something else, instead of being left high and dry. The occasional text just recounting something silly that happened while he is away or sharing an inside joke makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, too.

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