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View Poll Results: What is your Primary Instinctual Variant and Primary Love Language?

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  • Sx and my primary LL is Quality Time

    13 21.31%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Words of Affirmation

    6 9.84%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Physical Touch

    7 11.48%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Gifts

    0 0%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Acts of Service

    1 1.64%
  • So and my primary LL is Quality Time

    5 8.20%
  • So and my primary LL is Words of Affirmation

    2 3.28%
  • So and my primary LL is Physical Touch

    0 0%
  • So and my primary LL is Gifts

    0 0%
  • So and my primary LL is Acts of Service

    0 0%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Quality Time

    16 26.23%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Words of Affirmation

    4 6.56%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Physical Touch

    6 9.84%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Gifts

    0 0%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Acts of Service

    1 1.64%
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  1. #1
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    Default Instinctual Stacking and Love Language

    Just thought it would be fun to see if there is any correlation between one’s primary love language and primary instinctual variant.

    Here’s the love language test: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/

    I’m sx and I always tie between quality time and words of affirmation, with physical touch a very close second (I guess as an sx I might be greedy in terms of these three? ) The other two are much farther down the line, but gifts is way above acts of service, which hardly registers at all.

    Feel free to discuss.

    Don't forget to vote.

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    I'm sp/sx and I'm tied with quality time and physical touch, acts of service being a close third.
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    Hmm .. I'm an sx/sp and my love language is: 1. Words of Affirmation, 2. Quality time, 3 Acts of servitude.

    I'm also a 3w4 and therefore words of affirmation makes perfect sense with regards to why it's my highest. My need for validation is very high.

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    sx/sp - QT, PHY, WOA.
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    Don't forget to vote guys. We need it for research purposes and.... stuff.

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    sp/so - PHY, QT, WOA.

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    Funny that no sp types have acts of service in the lead, that would be my guess.
    Sx, I would imagine to be physical touch, and so probably quality time.
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    I didn't vote but I'll put my things here.

    I'm Sx dom.
    Quality Time and Physical Touch are highest. Then Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation are very closely second, with WOA being one point less. Then Gifts almost insignificant with 1 point.

    I didn't feel voting did the other areas enough service so I didn't vote.
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    Sx or sx/sp, (1) quality time and (2) touch.
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    sp/sx: My top 3 were really close

    1. Quality Time
    2. Touch
    3. Words of Affirmation

    And the gift/practical categories were almost empty

    I notice that sp subtypes have voted for my top three, but not for my bottom two. A pattern seems to be emerging, but it's too early to say.

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