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View Poll Results: What is your Primary Instinctual Variant and Primary Love Language?

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  • Sx and my primary LL is Quality Time

    13 21.31%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Words of Affirmation

    6 9.84%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Physical Touch

    7 11.48%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Gifts

    0 0%
  • Sx and my primary LL is Acts of Service

    1 1.64%
  • So and my primary LL is Quality Time

    5 8.20%
  • So and my primary LL is Words of Affirmation

    2 3.28%
  • So and my primary LL is Physical Touch

    0 0%
  • So and my primary LL is Gifts

    0 0%
  • So and my primary LL is Acts of Service

    0 0%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Quality Time

    16 26.23%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Words of Affirmation

    4 6.56%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Physical Touch

    6 9.84%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Gifts

    0 0%
  • Sp and my primary LL is Acts of Service

    1 1.64%
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  1. #31
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    6 Words of Affirmation
    10 Quality Time
    5 Receiving Gifts
    1 Acts of Service
    8 Physical Touch

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    1 Physical Touch

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    sp/so

    1) Quality Time
    2) Acts of Service
    3) Receiving Gifts

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    Sx/So

    1) Quality Time ≈ 2) Physical Touch
    3) Words of Affirmation
    4) Gifts
    5) Acts of Service

    It kind of seems to me like Quality Time is kind of a given in a relationship... like... do you really have a relationship if you don't spend quality time together?

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    Doesn't it seem that words might have to do with introversion? Don't know where that thought came from but I am extroverted/talkative and prefer words of affirmation? Possibly correlation...
    Extroverted (E) 67.74% Introverted (I) 32.26%
    Intuitive (N) 51.72% Sensing (S) 48.28%
    Feeling (F) 51.61% Thinking (T) 48.39%
    Judging (J) 69.44% Perceiving (P) 30.56%

    Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
    so/sx/sp

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    1. Quality Time
    2. Acts of Service
    3. Words of Affirmation
    4. Gifts
    5. Physical Touch

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neutralpov View Post
    Doesn't it seem that words might have to do with introversion? Don't know where that thought came from but I am extroverted/talkative and prefer words of affirmation? Possibly correlation...
    not necessarily, for me it's probably more of an insecurity thing where i need to be reassured about their feelings for me pretty often. also, my current istp boyfriend is way better at giving words of affirmation than my esfp ex.

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    sp/sx. my two highest are quality time and acts of service.
    INTP 5-4-8 sp/sx chaotic neutral AWESOME

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    Sx/sp. Physical Touch

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    5w4 4w5 8w7 sx/sp

    8Words of Affirmation
    11Quality Time
    0Receiving Gifts
    7Acts of Service
    4Physical Touch

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