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    Quote Originally Posted by Viridian View Post
    So... Sx-doms are like teenagers?

    Also, has this thread come to double as a "Figuring out people's instinctual variants" thread?

    ...If so, can I join in?
    you seem Sp/Sx to me. just a guess
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    you seem Sp/Sx to me. just a guess
    Thanks! And yes, that's one of my best guesses... Although they're usually characterized as not caring about how they come across to non-intimates, which does not really apply to me in general.

    Sp-dom sounds like the best bet. My room is like a den, filled with my precious belongings.
    Tentative typing: ISFJ 6w5 or 9w1 (Sp/S[?]).

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    while I'm at it, I'm gonna guess the instinct variant of some other members
    @RevlisZero: So/Sx
    @shortnsweet: So/Sx
    @Esoteric Wench: Sp/Sx
    @Savage Idealist: Sp/So (glad you've settled on this )
    @Patches: Sp/??
    @Orangey: Sp/Sx
    @Biaxident: Sp/Sx
    @DJAcclaim: Sx/So
    @Jennifer: Sp/Sx
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    while I'm at it, I'm gonna guess the instinct variant of some other members
    @RevlisZero: So/Sx
    @shortnsweet: So/Sx
    @Esoteric Wench: Sp/Sx
    @Savage Idealist: Sp/So (glad you've settled on this )
    @Patches: Sp/??
    @Orangey: Sp/Sx
    @Biaxident: Sp/Sx
    @DJAcclaim: Sx/So
    @Jennifer: Sp/Sx
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    Sp/Sx
    Close. Either sx/sp or just sx.
    (My primary motivation in my connections with others is not self-preservationist.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vizzy View Post
    Approaching sex as a mechanical act. That's where we differ greatly, it seems. Does it have something to do with our different wings? Does it even matter? If anyone could shed some light onto this, that'd be great.
    Well, maybe I haven't expressed myself clearly. I didn't mean that sex is always a mechanical act; of course, when there's love involved it must be a meaningful and important experience, and I believe that this way is much MUCH better. It's just that, when there's no love, I still can accept it as something impersonal and not really intimate. Other people, for example, would never think something like that; sex for them is always intimate (even if it's a one-night stand) and they expect to be loved.

    I suppose that 6 wing instead of 4 wing has something to do with this different approach. Apparently, 6 wing brings more detachment from emotions. I'm also very disconnected from my body sometimes; I could probably live as a head in a jar.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vizzy View Post
    Sp/Sx is my guess for you
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    Sp/Sx is my guess for you
    What's the real difference between sp/sx and sx/sp?

    Does this sound right?
    Sp/sx: generally wants to live in a safe, predictable atmosphere, but fantasizes about romance, intensity, and seeks it in 'controllable' doses (through fiction, art, and trusted relationships)
    Sx/sp: generally flings themselves into 'high and low's in search of intensity and connection, but may feel the need to wall up sometimes

    I'm asking because I feel my sx pull (or maybe it's my 4-ness) very strongly, but ultimately I just need to be safe...
    4w5 sp/sx EII

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    Quote Originally Posted by 21% View Post
    What's the real difference between sp/sx and sx/sp?

    Does this sound right?
    Sp/sx: generally wants to live in a safe, predictable atmosphere, but fantasizes about romance, intensity, and seeks it in 'controllable' doses (through fiction, art, and trusted relationships)
    Sx/sp: generally flings themselves into 'high and low's in search of intensity and connection, but may feel the need to wall up sometimes

    I'm asking because I feel my sx pull (or maybe it's my 4-ness) very strongly, but ultimately I just need to be safe...
    ultimately it boils down to your most deep seated fixation, with the second instinct being at the service of the first
    Sx/Sp: main goal is sex, sexual intimacy and intense chemistry. can use their Sp side (acquisition of resources, financial stability etc) to sexually attract people (think Sugar Daddy's and Cougars)
    Sp/Sx: main goal is comfort, safety and financial security. can use their sexual appeal to gain power, money, comfort or security.

    I suppose as a 7 it's easy for me to distinguish the two. Sp/Sx 7s need physical pleasure and comfort and enjoy sex; Sx/Sp 7s need sex and enjoy physical pleasure and comfort. in our case, which one is first is usually pretty obvious I think (even if it may not seem so externally)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    ultimately it boils down to your most deep seated fixation, with the second instinct being at the service of the first
    Sx/Sp: main goal is sex, sexual intimacy and intense chemistry. can use their Sp side (acquisition of resources, financial stability etc) to sexually attract people (think Sugar Daddy's and Cougars)
    Sp/Sx: main goal is comfort, safety and financial security. can use their sexual appeal to gain power, money, comfort or security.

    I suppose as a 7 it's easy for me to distinguish the two. Sp/Sx 7s need physical pleasure and comfort and enjoy sex; Sx/Sp 7s need sex and enjoy physical pleasure and comfort. in our case, which one is first is usually pretty obvious I think (even if it may not seem so externally)
    Yeah, it does seem clearer in 7s when you put it that way

    I think it should be fairly clear in 4s too -- because I think I'm pretty 'level-headed' (stemming from being safety-oriented) as a 4. I can imagine sx 4s being a lot less 'leashed in'.

    What about in 9s? I've been trying to pin down my INFP boyfriend's instincts. I'm quite sure he's a 9w1, and I've guessed sx/sp, but I have no idea how to tell for sure.

    Sorry if I'm hijacking the thread >_<
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