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  • so/sp - I have a clique

    2 1.92%
  • so/sp - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    7 6.73%
  • so/sp - I am mostly a loner

    4 3.85%
  • so/sx - I have a clique

    4 3.85%
  • so/sx - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    2 1.92%
  • so/sx - I am mostly a loner

    5 4.81%
  • sp/so - I have a clique

    2 1.92%
  • sp/so - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    3 2.88%
  • sp/sp - I am mostly a loner

    8 7.69%
  • sp/sx - I have a clique

    0 0%
  • sp/sx - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    15 14.42%
  • sp/sx - I am mostly a loner

    8 7.69%
  • sx/so - I have a clique

    4 3.85%
  • sx/so - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    7 6.73%
  • sx/so - I am mostly a loner

    6 5.77%
  • sx/sp - I have a clique

    4 3.85%
  • sx/sp - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    13 12.50%
  • sx/sp - I am mostly a loner

    10 9.62%
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  1. #11
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    I voted for "mostly a loner." I have a couple of closer friends but mostly I do things myself, so I voted for that option. I have alot of acquaintances from different walks of life but I have never associated with any one clique.

    I'm not sure of my stacking. I'm tentatively guessing sp/so/sx at this moment.
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    I'm Sx/Sp and wrote "I have a clique" but I don't have a clique, it just fit more than the "few relationships" answer. The answer is that I have many individual friends, small groups, and relationships, but they don't all fit together in one group. "I have many friends" would be the better choice for me.
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    I am SX/SP with strong leanings towards both of them. I have more people who consider themselves my friend, than I consider people actually being my friend. I am a strong loner type as well.

    I am trying to work on being more social. I think I allow myself the comfort of being alone far more than I should.

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    sp/sx - I have a few, individual, very close friendships

    Just thinking about this the other day actually, how I'm kinda starting to see the benefit of belonging to a "group."
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    I rate mostly even (omni) but when I do show preference it is sx/so or so/sx and mostly a loner.
    Last edited by Tiger Owl; 09-16-2011 at 04:39 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    Im not sure clique is really accurate. Im peripherally a member of a couple different "cliques" but more by virtue of my close friendships with one or two people or volunteer work. I get along well with the group though. Im so/sx.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    i answered as an sx/sp but i'm a bit unsure of it. when i was younger and more social i had several big groups of friends. i guess that might fall under your clique category...but now especially since moving away from all of my friends i just have a few close ones....i prefer knowing a big group and being close with a few.
    Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
    I really feel quite similarly. While I have only a few friends who I'd call very close, I like knowing I have a bit of a network, including friends who aren't as close, and "good acquaintances."
    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    I'm Sx/Sp and wrote "I have a clique" but I don't have a clique, it just fit more than the "few relationships" answer. The answer is that I have many individual friends, small groups, and relationships, but they don't all fit together in one group. "I have many friends" would be the better choice for me.
    I'm sx/so, and the above bolded quotes describe me best.

    In uni, I was peripherally involved in many cliques, but usually close to one or two people at the center of each, and friendly acquaintance with the rest. Now that I've moved away, I follow the same pattern, but don't have as many cliques to float between.

    Also, I tend to always have a best friend, or a closest friend in each setting. Now I understand that to be the sx.

    I guess I'll vote for "few close friends"?

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    Now I'm wondering if I really am sx/so like I originally thought and not so/sx. I'm not as Fi tunnel-vision/intense or oblivious/ambivalent to groups as an sx ENFP 'should' be though.

    I've never found a group of people who I feel totally at ease with. If I did, I would love to have a 'clique'. I hate that word by the way... I just find it a little disingenuous and unnecessary to try to force friendship or a deeper connection with people just because you're all part of the same group. I think in one case, this is actually why the individuals respond well to me.

    I think people often think of me as being social and in particular, more socially well connected than I really am. Or maybe I really am socially well-connected in the way that they imagine, I just don't personally feel I am good friends with tons of people.

    I have a handful of very close friends who may or many not be friends with each other but are NOT part of "the same group", another larger handful (yes with 7 fingers, leave me alone!!!!) of friends who I would like to be closer to but geography doesn't work out, and then a constellation of people I am friendly with. I think an SX doesn't really consider the group or group dynamics much or really VALUE 'group'. However, even though I'm very bad at keeping at touch and am always a bit self-conscious inside clique dynamics because I know I am not as entrenched in it, I do value it.
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    I suspect there aren't enough so doms on here to get a significant answer. I voted a few individual close friendships, but have many wider circles of acquaintances not connected to each other. So, I feel like I know many groups of people, am connected, but am close with only a few folks IRL.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redcheerio View Post
    I'm sx/so, and the above bolded quotes describe me best.

    In uni, I was peripherally involved in many cliques, but usually close to one or two people at the center of each, and friendly acquaintance with the rest. Now that I've moved away, I follow the same pattern, but don't have as many cliques to float between.

    Also, I tend to always have a best friend, or a closest friend in each setting. Now I understand that to be the sx.

    I guess I'll vote for "few close friends"?
    right me too...like it always just worked out that i would click really well with someone and then become friends with all of their friends too but i was always the closest with the one or two people....i like groups around me tho...we used to go to sunday brunch all the time...like 15-20 of us sometimes...i loved that...or for someones birthday we'd all go out to a nice dinner...or just random get togethers at peoples houses...i enjoy the energy of a group...the way people vibe off of each other and the way i seem to absorb the energy generated by everyone...but i'm cool just having a few people there that i feel really connected to.

    i don't know if thats more sx/so or sx/sp or what.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PeaceBaby View Post
    I suspect there aren't enough so doms on here to get a significant answer. I voted a few individual close friendships, but have many wider circles of acquaintances not connected to each other. So, I feel like I know many groups of people, am connected, but am close with only a few folks IRL.
    Are you So dom as well?

    That describes it well. And in much fewer words than I used. >_<
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