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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    Gotcha. I figured you all already knew the high level stuff, but just in case, I threw it out there.

    Did you see the description about the sx/sp "one man storm"? See if this helps, http://theenneagram.blogspot.com/200...ings.html#sxsp.
    thanks...i have seen it. i'm still confused...because i think most would see me more like gwen steffani or drew barrymore sx/so and i agree its likely i may come off that way...but i feel like sx/sp might be more true to who i actually am...frick frack idk
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    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    I don't see how it's possible to discover oneself that way. A great deal of what you learn about yourself HAS to come from other people, in reality and not on the net.
    Oh, I know. I was asking if you thought that a correct judgment can be made if I don't go out much?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    Your idea of Sp sounds like introversion. All three of your descriptions involve relationships with others. Is that at the core of this system? Are Sp's head-in-sand self-encapsulated? Or are they just, as the descriptions I've read indicate, concerned with watching out for their personal well-being (materially, socially, etc)?

    Self-preservation comes out in many ways. Sometimes it may involve a pre-emptive strike against a foreseen danger. But self-preservation, safety, and security lies at the core of the Sp type.

    "SP tends to keep the self hidden and safe and only known to a few." Safe, of course. Hidden: perhaps that's just a type 5 interpretation of the instinct to find security. Other types may find it safer to bring their issues out into the open.
    The instincts seem too limiting. Are there healthy and unhealthy degrees of instinctual variants? And it also seems as though not everyone agrees on single definitions. What motivates the SP to keep hidden or only known to a few?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Oh, I know. I was asking if you thought that a correct judgment can be made if I don't go out much?
    You'll never know until you get out more.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndyAnnaJoan View Post
    The instincts seem too limiting. Are there healthy and unhealthy degrees of instinctual variants? And it also seems as though not everyone agrees on single definitions. What motivates the SP to keep hidden or only known to a few?
    To be hidden isn't my definition of Sp. My reply only says Sp has to do with safety, security, and of course self-preservation. If the Type 5 wants to become hermit-like, then that's just a type 5 interpretation of what it means to desire security. Consider Ted Kaczynsky for an example of what could be the Sp/Sx type 5 collapsing the boundaries inward. As for the opposite attitude toward security, the type 8 Sp would seek it through acquiring more stuff and expanding personal territory, bringing along with it more to dominate and control.

    I've read a little bit that indicates there are healthy to unhealthy levels to this. Consider this page:
    http://ocean-moonshine.net/e14285736...position=86:80
    then look for the text that says "when unhealthy..."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post

    like the fact that we are aware constantly of the chemistry between our self and others...this can't be turned off. this makes your so feel like you're still looking...even when you're not. i am honest with myself about it and will avoid people i feel a vibe with...yeah...that sucks for your so to hear too. my bf said he doesn't even notice it when he's in a relationship...he can find someone attractive but there's no vibey thing happening...i find that hard to believe...because it's been like that my whole life...constant awareness.
    I'm an sx/sp and this rings true. You just are very aware of the intensity of another person quickly. It's not necessarily a romantic attraction. It can be interest, curiosity, testing of that person to get to the heart of their energy? I don't know how to describe it better than that but it's almost always desiring an instant report quickly but not necessarily needing it ever again (SP comes into play here). SX/SP, in my experience, has a binge and purge, ebb and flow energy. It's very conflicted at heart and if you were sx/sp I hope this would all be relatable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    To be hidden isn't my definition of Sp. My reply only says Sp has to do with safety, security, and of course self-preservation. If the Type 5 wants to become hermit-like, then that's just a type 5 interpretation of what it means to desire security. Consider Ted Kaczynsky for an example of what could be the Sp/Sx type 5 collapsing the boundaries inward. As for the opposite attitude toward security, the type 8 Sp would seek it through acquiring more stuff and expanding personal territory, bringing along with it more to dominate and control.

    I've read a little bit that indicates there are healthy to unhealthy levels to this. Consider this page:
    http://ocean-moonshine.net/e14285736...position=86:80
    then look for the text that says "when unhealthy..."
    i should have been more clear. i was agreeing with you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MDP2525 View Post
    I'm an sx/sp and this rings true. You just are very aware of the intensity of another person quickly. It's not necessarily a romantic attraction. It can be interest, curiosity, testing of that person to get to the heart of their energy? I don't know how to describe it better than that but it's almost always desiring an instant report quickly but not necessarily needing it ever again (SP comes into play here). SX/SP, in my experience, has a binge and purge, ebb and flow energy. It's very conflicted at heart and if you were sx/sp I hope this would all be relatable.
    Yes, relatable. Goes with...

    "sx/sp This is perhaps the most internally conflicted of the stackings, and potentially the most inconsistent in behavior. This may occur as a blockage of the sexual instinct which can be redirected as a more generally brooding and troubled personality. They may isolate themselves for long periods of time before reemerging. They live according to a strictly personal outlook and are not particularly concerned with the approval of others outside of their immediate concern. They seem to be searching for something, the missing piece. If they find a soulmate they will unite without fanfare, forming a secret bond, dealing with formalities as an afterthought. Powerful sexual impulses facing inner resistance may manifest symbolically in the psyche, giving way to soulful interpretations of the unconscious. Under periods of stress severe sexual tensions may manifest as erratic, impulsively destructive behavior. Can seem restless, torn between the comforts of a stable home life and the urge to wander. May be prone to self-medicating. Motivation: to know the heart, reconcile inner conflict, form a secure union."

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    yes it is. i'm extremely loyal...like..it's important to protect that sacredness of a bond completely...so intense interesting vibey energy reads like danger danger abort abort haha and it's just there...there's no thought process...i mean no figuring it out process just an immediate temperature check...luke warm is fine good...hey how ya doin...scalding is um...no!! cold is...eh...bored...who else can i talk to haha wow...i'm going to stop talking now. this sounds awful. :/
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    yes it is. i'm extremely loyal...like..it's important to protect that sacredness of a bond completely...so intense interesting vibey energy reads like danger danger abort abort haha and it's just there...there's no thought process...i mean no figuring it out process just an immediate temperature check...luke warm is fine good...hey how ya doin...scalding is um...no!! cold is...eh...bored...who else can i talk to haha wow...i'm going to stop talking now. this sounds awful. :/
    THAT I can relate to.

    You guys have me wondering if I'm SX first again.
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