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    Whisky Old & Women Young Speed Gavroche's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    Your continual refusal to provide even the barest modicum of support for your conclusions is quickly eroding any value your opinions might provide. Why not actually make a thin attempt at a dialogue, even if you really don't care?
    Does mal have the barest of modicum of support on his side to support his ridiculous opinion? No. And I will laugh at him until he have something to prove that.

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    Is mal like this? No, of course.

    sp/soc: The most straightfoward in language, with relatively little trills and embellishments. Points made directly and from personal experience. Business-like. Clear. Cynical. Lacking in internal experience compared to other stackings.
    Is mal like this? Pretty much.

    And please, I don't want to hear "but I deeply desire an intense relationship". Sexual and sentimental frustration are not a mark of the Sx instinct if it's not balanced by a strong sexual energy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    Does mal have the barest of modicum of support on his side to support his ridiculous opinion? No. And I will laugh at him until he have something to prove that.
    Whatever. It's your credibility that's been going in the crapper, not his.

    Is mal like this? No, of course.
    Is mal like this? Pretty much.
    Do you know Mal in real life?

    Like I said before, a lot of your comments seem pulled out of a hat, just like Technical's type readings.

    And please, I don't want to hear "but I deeply desire an intense relationship". Sexual and sentimental frustration are not a mark of the Sx instinct if it's not balanced by a strong sexual energy.
    Finally, a little meat. Wanna describe what "sexual energy" is? Do you mean "libido" energy that might or might not result in sex, or are you saying that one has to convert that energy into sex, or what exactly?
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    i'll catch up in this thread in a min but i just wanted to address a few relationship style things that come up as an sx dom which i could use some insight into...

    like the fact that we are aware constantly of the chemistry between our self and others...this can't be turned off. this makes your so feel like you're still looking...even when you're not. i am honest with myself about it and will avoid people i feel a vibe with...yeah...that sucks for your so to hear too. my bf said he doesn't even notice it when he's in a relationship...he can find someone attractive but there's no vibey thing happening...i find that hard to believe...because it's been like that my whole life...constant awareness. i think it's why i always had so many gay guy friends because there was no vibe...because i won't let myself get close with anyone when i'm in a relationship and i can feel that chemistry...even if it's just on their end....which just flat out sucks all around!! because i like people and just want to be able to form close relationships but all this sxy stuff gets in the way!
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    I think SX's generally have an intense look in their eyes, and also don't really hold it back. I think SX's might be proof that I'm SP first and SX second, as when I come across others with that look in their eyes, it makes me react by looking away. I prefer to be more... aloof and hidden. It's sort of a soul piercing stare, and I can't have people staring into my soul. :P
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    yeah...i notice that i often seem to be the only giving eye contact...its so weird to me...i can feel their unease with it and i don't understand it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxonstilts View Post
    I'm not the best "people person" and don't relate to them, usually, but somehow whenever I like someone, I fall a little bit in love with them.
    Wait, do you mean to say that you fall in love with every person you like, even as a mere friend? I'm not quite understanding what you mean by this.

    I think that's the "intense connection" that is so associated with sx doms. I don't separate my feelings into "oh this person is an acquaintance, this person is a friend, this is my BEST friend, and this is my boyfriend." They're all equal in my mind (the the chagrin of my significant other, as to be expected.)
    I can somewhat to relate to this, as I don't do labels; however, whenever I get to know someone better, I become closer to them and I thus prefer to talk to them compared to someone I only speak to a few minutes out of the day. But isn't everyone like that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    Is there a specific question? I have only offered Hazashin an answer. Perhaps the best answer for him would be to ask someone, because it took 20 or more years for someone to volunteer the information to me. I don't think it's the case that every new thread has to start with a question.
    Ask what, exactly?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    yeah...i notice that i often seem to be the only giving eye contact...its so weird to me...i can feel their unease with it and i don't understand it.
    Wait, if you feel uncomfortable looking people in the eye, does that mean you are not an Sx-dom? Or is that just shyness? Because I would also like to say that my favorite thing about my crush is her eyes. I just love looking at them, even if not directly. Actually, on the rare occasion I am talking with her, I like looking in her eyes more than anyone else. If I was alone with her and she wasn't uncomfortable, I would definitely have the intense Sx-look.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    i'll catch up in this thread in a min but i just wanted to address a few relationship style things that come up as an sx dom which i could use some insight into...

    like the fact that we are aware constantly of the chemistry between our self and others...this can't be turned off. this makes your so feel like you're still looking...even when you're not. i am honest with myself about it and will avoid people i feel a vibe with...yeah...that sucks for your so to hear too. my bf said he doesn't even notice it when he's in a relationship...he can find someone attractive but there's no vibey thing happening...i find that hard to believe...because it's been like that my whole life...constant awareness. i think it's why i always had so many gay guy friends because there was no vibe...because i won't let myself get close with anyone when i'm in a relationship and i can feel that chemistry...even if it's just on their end....which just flat out sucks all around!! because i like people and just want to be able to form close relationships but all this sxy stuff gets in the way!
    I relate to this very well. As far as eye contact goes, I'm all about it when I'm into someone, its like I can't stop staring, but if I feel uncomfortable or don't want a relationship with someone, little eye contact.

    You know, mal, I have a hard time believing someone could be sexual dominant and not know people find them attractive. I am constantly paying attention to this. Obviously I don't know you well, but you strike me as a social five, especially after the whole ayn rand conversation. You defended yourself by pulling out your credentials, declaring that you were the official ayn rand expert on here, and you do the same thing on here with your enneagram knowledge. I'm not criticizing you for this, just observing what you do. You seem so/sp to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Wait, do you mean to say that you fall in love with every person you like, even as a mere friend? I'm not quite understanding what you mean by this.
    I don't mean literally in-love-go-to-the-chapel-get-married sort of love. More like very connected in a personal level with who they are as a singular being without comparing them to anyone else. It's deep. Almost like I'm giving them a piece of myself, I guess? I guess that's what it means when every description says sx goes for intense one-on-one connections. It's like I see them, faults and all, and still respect/adore them all the same and would do almost anything for them. It makes betrayal a lot worse.

    It's basically like I give every person I like a piece of me. I think. I haven't actually thought about it enough to know how to describe it very well in words.

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