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    Default Sp/Sx or Sp/So

    I've been absolutely certain about Sp/Sx for a while, but I'm starting to have my doubts again.

    Sp/Sx
    - communicating in a group is quite puzzling to me. I have to break it up into one-one communication or I just don't know what to do
    - I have a very self absorbed, vampire-ish vibe that goes well with Sp/Sx
    - I can be solitary for tremendous lengths of time without feeling the need to talk to anyone
    - I feel no desire to fit in, much less am I willing to sacrifice for the sake of a group
    - hierarchy is unnatural to me.
    - I have a hard time keeping track of So things
    - gossip
    - email
    - remembering parties, birthdays, etc
    - keeping in touch with people
    - intimacy, both sexual and non-sexual comes quite easily to me
    - my style of dress is sensual, attention grabbing and often polarizing. the stereotype of the boring dressed Sp/So is hella not me
    - group events like sports games, clubs and such make me thing "wtf do I do?" or "this is disgusting, how could so many people be persuaded to do this?"

    Sp/So
    - I don't speak like most Sp/Sx types at all. my speaking style is forward, assertive and high energy much of the time. when I'm in a high energy mood I sound kinda like a more subtle version of Stan from American Dad. most of the time I sound more like Brian from Family Guy
    - when someone I care about dies, I usually don't feel very sad (indicative of sexual last perhaps?)
    - I don't particular care that I am a social outcast, but I do notice it in the first place, this could indicate social second
    - I can be kinda goofy, this doesn't seem to be present in Sp/Sx most of the time
    - I used to be interested in politics. is this an So thing?
    - I have this ability to get people to follow me that sorta puzzles me. however, I don't really know what to do with them once they do, so they end up leaving
    - I can sit for hours and talk with someone I find interesting, albeit preferably if I know them well, and it usually takes me awhile to warm up before I know what to do
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    the more I look at that list, the more I look So/Sx (God please don't let me be that!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    (God please don't let me be that!)
    Why? You're not trying on dresses, y'know.
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    No desire to fit in sounds like So last to me. I'm supposedly So first, yet I can't stand groups, prefer one-on-one, am quite solitary, have no interest in gossip or politics, have trouble staying in touch with people, and cannot for the life of me remember names, faces, birthdays, who did what when, and all that stuff. The only thing that makes me So first is my focus on how much I don't fit in, and the fact that I worry far too much about what others think of me. So either I'm wrong about my variant, or desire to fit in is about the only thing that really matters for So, and if you don't have that at all, you're probably So last.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RevlisZero View Post
    No desire to fit in sounds like So last to me. I'm supposedly So first, yet I can't stand groups, prefer one-on-one, am quite solitary, have no interest in gossip or politics, have trouble staying in touch with people, and cannot for the life of me remember names, faces, birthdays, who did what when, and all that stuff. The only thing that makes me So first is my focus on how much I don't fit in, and the fact that I worry far too much about what others think of me. So either I'm wrong about my variant, or desire to fit in is about the only thing that really matters for So, and if you don't have that at all, you're probably So last.
    personally I think you're Sp/So. given your description here and previous information, Sp/So makes more sense than full on So dom.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    personally I think you're Sp/So. given your description here and previous information, Sp/So makes more sense than full on So dom.
    Yeah, you may be right. The problem is, how can I tell whether I'm an Sp/So or an So/Sp in withdrawn Sp mode? I can never seem to get my variant right.

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    I checked Sp/Sx. I know a 7w6 Sp/Sx who is very assertive and streightworward, like parties a lot and is very gregarious and politically oriented (she's ENFJ an, as often with this type, is a charming proselyte), but she simply does'nt feel enlarged by the group, is strictly an individual and don't consider herself member of any "real" group. Plus she has a very strong and magnetic side.

    By, the way, you are a 7w8 and not a 8w9 dude. Eventually 8w7.

    (edit) Oh wait... You typed you as 6w7 Sx/So ??!!?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    I checked Sp/Sx. I know a 7w6 Sp/Sx who is very assertive and streightworward, like parties a lot and is very gregarious and politically oriented (she's ENFJ an, as often with this type, is a charming proselyte), but she simply does'nt feel enlarged by the group, is strictly an individual and don't consider herself member of any "real" group. Plus she has a very strong and magnetic side.

    By, the way, you are a 7w8 and not a 8w9 dude. Eventually 8w7.

    (edit) Oh wait... You typed you as 6w7 Sx/So ??!!?
    mostly as a joke
    I watched all the videos of 6w7 Sx/So and I was like "damn, it might not be my type, but they sure as hell look like me"
    PS: I related to most of the 8w9 videos too
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    mostly as a joke
    I watched all the videos of 6w7 Sx/So and I was like "damn, it might not be my type, but they sure as hell look like me"
    Who look like you for example?

    PS: I related to most of the 8w9 videos too
    Hum, wich ones fro example?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    Who look like you for example?
    Hum, wich ones fro example?
    I related to several more of these, but from what I can remember
    6w7: Lindsay Lohan, Lady Gaga, Amy Lee, Angelina Jolie, Ellen Degeneres
    8w9: Charlton Heston, Jessye Norman, Glenn Close, Sean Penn, Anakin Skywalker
    7w8: Jack Nicholson, Quentin Tarantino, Gambit, Ryan Gosling
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    Motivation: Dark Worker
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