How do you experience Sx? For me it can be with another person, a desire for that intensity of relationship. Confiding, talking about things we are passionate about, of course actual sex stuff (but don't we all want that?)
But equally or perhaps more often, it can be in a desire for an intensity of experience (while I feel at least somewhat safe or confident in myself/the situation), things like bike riding in traffic, being in waves in the ocean, immersing myself in the process of making something. I do feel an underlying desire to try things that are a little bit scary, for that exhileration. Pushing myself to see how far I can go at a physical activity, like running up stairs or hiking.
Was wondering what you guys relate to.
p.s. I am sp/sx