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    You have had a series of limerent episodes (crushes) on people that have lasted for years. Idolising them has shaped your identity and their rejection of you causes scorching shame and rage, which you often express directly to them in SMS. Years later you still hate them for what they have done to you. You fear the next crush because it will be your undoing.

    You have had a series of "best friends" that you could fully share yourself with, even shameful things. When a third party (friend, baby) comes along, or you have disappointed them in some way..... the friendship is over and you become strangers overnight.

    You have a tendency to "overshare" your political opinions, feelings, and tastes on Facebook, hoping that by letting your freak flag fly, others will be drawn to you. And are devastated when this strategy backfires, because of the gossip/ judgement/ cowardice of others.
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    “Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise.”
    "Fate and character are different names for the same idea.”

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    When you feel an immediate spark with someone and will do nearly anything to get them to fall for you.
    CHOOSE THE PATH THEY'LL NEVER TAKE

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    When you can't watch a classical play without coming up with kinky fantasies you'd like to act out with your partner.
    "If you fell down yesterday, stand up today." ~ H. G. Wells
    "You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream." ~ C. S. Lewis

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    Sometimes, I tell at myself, "STOP BEING SO FLIRTATIOUS WITH OTHERS, DAMMIT!" IDK Y and on top of that, I'm type 1 connecting to 7 which expresses itself anytime... OVERDOSE OF FEEEEELLLINGGsss!!!!! I CAN'T HELP IT.

    ALL the males I know tend to fall for me but that is my way of opening to them, I DIDN'T WANT ROMANCE but friendship. I piss myself off. WHY I can't, I can't, I tried but fail..
    I NEVER TELL THEM, "I can't talk to u because I open up doors I shouldn't." If it's not a relationship, then they're not interested in friendship. So, I flirt with them because I learned that's the only way I can communicate without being abyss. sx user

    "I don't want anything, because nothing makes me happy."~Me
    People aren't interested.

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    When you attract a disproportionate percentage of weirdos, the fucked up, and stalkers (WHY IS THIS?)

    When only another Sx will do.

    When you take provocative selfies "just in case" the "right" opportunity ever comes up to send them to someone you have the hots for (I swear to god I better not be the only one who does this.....)

    Or... maybe you just like to pose all sexy in front of the mirror, nude, alone, and flexing your abs while poppin that booty out (again... please tell me I'm not alone)

    When you've been fired from a job ever for anything regarding your assertiveness or attitude.

    When you're the one dropping the most F-bombs on social media.

    When you have haters and you know that they hate you.

    When you don't care that you have haters.

    When you sense that some people are ever so slightly intimidated by or uncomfortable around you, and you didn't even do anything to scare them.

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    I'm not as well read on the instinctual variants, but these are the reasons I've thought myself a Sx-dom instead of Sp-dom

    I've had the capacity to adore another person - at first from afar when younger, but I felt intensely for years. While I didn't often idolized celebrities, I had intense friendship crushes and romantic crushes when younger. It wasn't with very many people, but a very select few. My admiration was intense and lasted for years. Now I don't have friendship crushes much, but when I connect to someone romantically, my entire heart is in it, and when the relationship ends, my heartbrokenness felt like it took me to the edge of my own sanity and to the edge of life itself.

    When I feel, it is completely and utterly, unless I'm tired and have a headache or feel sick. When I've looked at the sky, the beauty and wonder of it has taken me to pure ecstasy, and when feeling pain, I have felt it absolutely. Very few things could hurt me more than apathy from my love, and yet it happened to me for years. I was willing to suffer intense pain - enough to have to recalibrate my entire relationship to pain in order to connect to someone I adored. For me it is connection with complete abandon, and loss with complete devastation, and somehow having a pain tolerance high enough to survive it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Peter Deadpan View Post
    When you attract a disproportionate percentage of weirdos, the fucked up, and stalkers (WHY IS THIS?)

    When only another Sx will do.

    When you take provocative selfies "just in case" the "right" opportunity ever comes up to send them to someone you have the hots for (I swear to god I better not be the only one who does this.....)

    Or... maybe you just like to pose all sexy in front of the mirror, nude, alone, and flexing your abs while poppin that booty out (again... please tell me I'm not alone)

    When you've been fired from a job ever for anything regarding your assertiveness or attitude.

    When you're the one dropping the most F-bombs on social media.

    When you have haters and you know that they hate you.

    When you don't care that you have haters.

    When you sense that some people are ever so slightly intimidated by or uncomfortable around you, and you didn't even do anything to scare them.
    I ... maaaaay relate to ... this more than I should admit to.

    Not just in case, if I was more certain about my friends' boundaries and my current ... person ... wouldn't get jealous, I'd send it to them too.

    People are usually surprised to find that I, uh, have a lot of this energy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Peter Deadpan View Post
    When you attract a disproportionate percentage of weirdos, the fucked up, and stalkers (WHY IS THIS?)

    When you've been fired from a job ever for anything regarding your assertiveness or attitude.

    When you're the one dropping the most F-bombs on social media.

    When you sense that some people are ever so slightly intimidated by or uncomfortable around you, and you didn't even do anything to scare them.
    Sometimes I wonder if I'm sx dom because of comments like this...

    I had just about any amount of messed up people that ended up falling for me because I listened to them without judgement, leading to a variety of complications even if I felt the same because I couldn't handle the unstable clinging and emotional instability and breakdowns that would emerge.

    Also get called rebellious do to my attitude. And yes on the intimidation factor at times, but that's largely from apparently having intense eyes like when I'm in a bad mood my glare has silenced bullies and freaked them out. When I just autopilot glared.

    Social media I'm fairly bad mouthed as I cuss whenever it seems fitting, but I am not a sailor mouth. I just don't care. Mainly to express anger or with a joke. With intention.

    Also my love IF it has that bizarre spark can be a sudden hit of intensity that shakes me from my normally emotionally unaffected interior. It is almost overwhelming yet so very rare to ever happen, that once it does... I end up excited yet downright terrified because of how it disrupts what's normal in me. End up obsessed and use to e-stalk the profiles when younger, but have since stopped once I realized it was socially .. odd. I realized I wanted to respect them. You just get fascinated with them and want to figure them all out. At least the rare times I had deep "love" feelings it was like this. The world standing still. But outside of this I barely feel much for anyone beyond a standard fondness. Like SX?
    "A life that lives without doing anything is the same as a slow death." - Lelouch Vi Britannia

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    Default You know you're an sx-dom when...

    I believe I have slight sx over so..
    I am intense, always testing my boundaries, hated by some people and I don't care about it, it is usually for a good reason..
    I used to have more sx when I was a little younger, but I grew more so as I grew up..
    I'm teasing people at the social media because I am honest about certain issues, and can easily see their double standards and their games, people hate when their games are being uncovered, I'm also very sarcastic, but again I use the tools that the attacker is giving me against them, and only when they're the ones who started it..
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