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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Then how do you get with guys then? They approach you?
    Well like I said I haven't been single much

    But if I like someone I engage them often... Moth to flame thing... Just want contact you know?

    I don't know if that's considered pursuing... I guess it is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    Well like I said I haven't been single much

    But if I like someone I engage them often... Moth to flame thing... Just want contact you know?

    I don't know if that's considered pursuing... I guess it is.
    Let's put it this way, in your last relationships, who was the one that first pursued the other: you or him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Let's put it this way, in your last relationships, who was the one that first pursued the other: you or him?
    It's like I made him aware of me, he pursued, then pulled back ( shyness) then I pulled him back in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    It's like I made him aware of me, he pursued, then pulled back ( shyness) then I pulled him back in.
    I've noticed that the push-pull method seems to be an sx/so thing. Are you sure you aren't sx/so?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    I've noticed that the push-pull method seems to be an sx/so thing. Are you sure you aren't sx/so?
    I don't believe it is... I mean I only push when I don't feel like the intensity is matched. It's a self preservation instinct.

    And I don't think you read that right.
    I pulled he pulled, then he pulled back due to shyness and I pulled him back in.

    I wasn't actually doing any pushing there.
    But... Have since just out of sp instincts.
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    OP Intermission...

    You know you're an sx-dom when so-doms make you feel like you're not quite housebroken.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    I don't believe it is... I mean I only push when I don't feel like the intensity is matched. It's a self preservation instinct.

    And I don't think you read that right.
    I pulled he pulled, then he pulled back due to shyness and I pulled him back in.

    I wasn't actually doing any pushing there.
    But... Have since just out of sp instincts.
    True. Your style of seduction seems too subdued to be sx/so. Sx/so's tend to have one of the most direct and aggressive styles of seduction of all the types.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    True. Your style of seduction seems too subdued to be sx/so. Sx/so's tend to have one of the most direct and aggressive styles of seduction of all the types.
    well it makes perfect sense that they would.

    they just jump right on in and swim around and we keep having to do temperature checks to make sure it still feels good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    well it makes perfect sense that they would.

    they just jump right on in and swim around and we keep having to do temperature checks to make sure it still feels good.
    Well nothing can be worse than trying to date a 6w7 sx/so. I tried to date one of those one time, and I felt like I was on a Hercules quest for her "Golden Apples".

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    i'm sorry i don't understand that.
    i'm sure i could google it but i'm very sleepy.
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