[sx] You know you're an sx-dom when...

[The Great One]

ok, maybe they will give a shit, but it doesn't change the impulse. having talked to you on the phone at length, you display these two traits in spades

Are we talking about having the impulse to do so, or actually acting upon that impulse?

 

[Elfboy]

Are we talking about having the impulse to do so, or actually acting upon that impulse?

mostly the former, but both.

 

[The Great One]

mostly the former, but both.

Well if it's having the impulse to approach, then I agree but when it comes to actually doing it, I'm not so sure that I agree.

 

[Elfboy]

Well if it's having the impulse to approach, then I agree but when it comes to actually doing it, I'm not so sure that I agree.

given some of the things you've said to women, I would have to disagree
you are a sexual freak and have difficulty getting on in the civilized world because of it.

 

[The Great One]

given some of the things you've said to women, I would have to disagree
you are a sexual freak and have difficulty getting on in the civilized world because of it.

I don't approach as much as I would like though, because I often am afraid that I am not "attractive" enough to date a person.

 

[Lady_X]

^^ hmm a phobic 6 thing?

 

[Lady_X]

And elfboy I don't feel like I have to stalk someone like prey. ( not saying I'm not naturally the pursuer) but its more of a moth to flame thing... Must have that more more more type thing.

But I don't feel like I'm stalking or hunting haha just wanna touch the flame singed eyebrows be damned! Haha

 

[The Great One]

^^ hmm a phobic 6 thing?

I was just thinking the same thing. Do you approach most of the time, Lady X?

 

[Lady_X]

I was just thinking the same thing. Do you approach most of the time, Lady X?

Idk subtley maybe or just make contact in a friendly way. I don't really like to be approached myself. I guess unless its done in the same way.

But I honestly haven't spent much time single so were talking just a handful of times really.

Edit: that's not to say I won't be blunt once I've made up my mind tho.

 

[The Great One]

Idk subtley maybe or just make contact in a friendly way. I don't really like to be approached myself. I guess unless its done in the same way.

But I honestly haven't spent much time single so were talking just a few times really.

Then how do you get with guys then? They approach you?

 

[Lady_X]

Then how do you get with guys then? They approach you?

Well like I said I haven't been single much

But if I like someone I engage them often... Moth to flame thing... Just want contact you know?

I don't know if that's considered pursuing... I guess it is.

 

[The Great One]

Well like I said I haven't been single much

But if I like someone I engage them often... Moth to flame thing... Just want contact you know?

I don't know if that's considered pursuing... I guess it is.

Let's put it this way, in your last relationships, who was the one that first pursued the other: you or him?

 

[Lady_X]

Let's put it this way, in your last relationships, who was the one that first pursued the other: you or him?

It's like I made him aware of me, he pursued, then pulled back ( shyness) then I pulled him back in.

 

[The Great One]

It's like I made him aware of me, he pursued, then pulled back ( shyness) then I pulled him back in.

I've noticed that the push-pull method seems to be an sx/so thing. Are you sure you aren't sx/so?

 

[Lady_X]

I've noticed that the push-pull method seems to be an sx/so thing. Are you sure you aren't sx/so?

I don't believe it is... I mean I only push when I don't feel like the intensity is matched. It's a self preservation instinct.

And I don't think you read that right.
I pulled he pulled, then he pulled back due to shyness and I pulled him back in.

I wasn't actually doing any pushing there.
But... Have since just out of sp instincts.

 

[Qlip]

OP Intermission...

You know you're an sx-dom when so-doms make you feel like you're not quite housebroken.

 

[The Great One]

I don't believe it is... I mean I only push when I don't feel like the intensity is matched. It's a self preservation instinct.

And I don't think you read that right.
I pulled he pulled, then he pulled back due to shyness and I pulled him back in.

I wasn't actually doing any pushing there.
But... Have since just out of sp instincts.

True. Your style of seduction seems too subdued to be sx/so. Sx/so's tend to have one of the most direct and aggressive styles of seduction of all the types.

 

[Lady_X]

True. Your style of seduction seems too subdued to be sx/so. Sx/so's tend to have one of the most direct and aggressive styles of seduction of all the types.

well it makes perfect sense that they would.

they just jump right on in and swim around and we keep having to do temperature checks to make sure it still feels good.

 

[The Great One]

well it makes perfect sense that they would.

they just jump right on in and swim around and we keep having to do temperature checks to make sure it still feels good.

Well nothing can be worse than trying to date a 6w7 sx/so. I tried to date one of those one time, and I felt like I was on a Hercules quest for her "Golden Apples".

 

[Lady_X]

i'm sorry i don't understand that.
i'm sure i could google it but i'm very sleepy.