Sx are often "dormant" as well, I can relate on what you say. I like isolation and I need time to recharge
. I'm dormant as well. Difference between Sx/Sp and Sp/Sx is that Sx/Sp tend to be delibaretely seducive
while Sp/Sx can seduce, but are above all concerned about being independant and with practical safety. They lock into them when they feel sexual thing threatens that. Sx/Sp also care about being in control and independant, but they are more aware of the power related with sexuality than of practical independance.
Also, Sp/Sx want a partner also, but they are more cencerned with secured relationships, Sx/Sp are more concerned with intense relationships
and want power. Sx/Sp prefer when it is impulsive and closeness happens quickly
, Sp/Sx prefer when it is slower and step-by-step, with time to recharge. Self-pres 4 are more serious, sensualist and who seek familiars sensations to nurish and sustain them
, some have leanings to dauntless and temerity, Sexual 4 are more concerned with competion, hate, they prefer that, than comfort.