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Thread: Enneagram/instinct variant and love languages

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    Senior Member Array Kensei's Avatar
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    I don't know what exactly this format is, but I'll post my love style anyway.
    Usually I prefer to assert my feelings for someone, but I never can bring myself to do it. Often I find myself observing the girl to find out her soft spot so I can put it in the right words. I'm dominant when it comes to guys and fights, but when it comes to girls I'm a super submissive softy.
    I prefer to receive constant feedback about how awesome I am in order to feed my ego, including how good looking the girl thinks I am, cause I take great pride in my appearance. I also don't mind a bit of physical affection, since I am often reluctant to give it myself. Me trying to kiss a girl is like the sterotypical ISFJ trying to jump a cliff when their authority tells tem not to. It's not going to happen.
    I apologize if this is not what you meant by "love language" again,I did not know the format, and quite frankly Idgaf.
    "Don't let a damned soul stomp on you for your age, but instead show them that you can be just as good as them in both morals and judgment"- 1 Timothy 4:12 in my own words that I can relate to.

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    know ⏩ assist ⏩ survive Array Alaska's Avatar
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    4w5 sx/sp
    ESI Fi


    4w5 sp/so, and my top two languages are quality time and exchanging gifts.

    I don't expect others to make the first move - if I don't think I can do it, I shouldn't expect it from another.
    4w5 6w7 1w2 sx/sp ISFP

    RLOAX (don't do it)
    Melancholic Hufflepuff
    A lonely island where only what is permitted to move moves, becomes an ideal. Jung

    Kiss Kiss [johari] Bang Bang [nohari]

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